How can introverts change quickly? As the saying goes, it's hard to change mountains. It's very difficult for introverts to change quickly. It's better not to change quickly.
When doing things slowly, first find out the main aspects of introversion, such as being unwilling to speak and rarely speak in front of others, being unwilling to find more people, and being unwilling to lead in study or work.
Then you should train yourself intentionally next. Let yourself gradually be at the middle and upper level in these three aspects. Constantly experience and sum up experience can finally change your personality, but it is impossible to change your personality in an all-round way. Sometimes the introverted personality is not necessarily bad. Don't make too much of it. You are not an extroverted personality. What you have to make known is your appearance, which may be bad.
The fastest way to get rid of introversion?
First, don't be nervous. Introversion is a normal personality, not a bad thing. In many cases, it is caused by the family environment. Please don't think that introversion is bad.
Second, there are many forms of introversion, such as shyness, inferiority and not daring to speak in front of others. There are also introverts who are good at dealing with people, but very lonely, especially when alone.
Third, there are many professions that need introverts. Introverts have advantages in many aspects, such as attention and concentration.
Fourth, personality has a lot to do with age. Girls as old as you must be psychologically more mature than you, especially in the relationship between men and women.
Fifth, what you care about most is that your character can be adjusted. According to my observation, (1) first of all, we should build self-confidence. For example, you are handsome, or you are rich, or you have good grades, or your father is powerful. In short, you are powerful. If there is no such thing, then try to gain one or more of the advantages. (2) Start with small things, take the initiative, and gradually eliminate the shyness, fear of mistakes, and fear of humiliation. In school, it is the best time to exercise your abilities in all aspects. You don't need to worry about anything, just do it. If you are wrong, you can reflect and correct.
Top 10 ways to change your introverted personality.
1. Read more jokes and funny jokes. Enhance the humor cells, make yourself funny and humorous, so that everyone will like to be friends with you. If you have more friends, will you remain introverted?
2. Help your friends, colleagues and classmates to let them know that you are actually very approachable.
3. To practice more, you can find more strangers to talk to. Don't be afraid, even if it's just the big brother greeting. After a long time, you will find that chatting with you is very simple and not as difficult as you think.
4. Watch and write TV plays or movies properly, and see how the characters in the play chat up and talk. While watching, learn more.
5. Learn to communicate with people with different personalities. Generally speaking, once introverts identify their friends and the friend does not dislike them, they will attach great importance to that friendship, and the possibility of developing friendship with others is almost zero, because introverts easily refuse to accept and trust others. The more this happens, the more introverted his personality will become. He will only associate with his only friend, and will refuse others. Therefore, if you want to change your introverted personality, you should also learn to deal with people with different personalities, and try to communicate and even become friends.
6. To strengthen one's own ability and be introverted, a large part of the reason is the inferiority complex in one's heart, and weak ability is the biggest reason for inferiority complex. Therefore, if you want to change the introverted character, you must make yourself stronger. Only by strengthening your ability and having certain success, can you have the confidence to get rid of inferiority complex, A person who completely gets rid of his inferiority complex will radiate a sense of sunshine on his body. It is difficult to be introverted.
7. Use your interests or hobbies to meet friends with common interests. For example, if you like playing games, you should not play alone. You should amuse yourself and see who is playing with you. Playing games together can bring each other closer and enhance the feelings of both sides.
8. Take part in more activities, in which you can recognize many people. In addition, the general activities are more interactive. Try to be more active and not hide behind. If you participate more, you will make more friends, and your personality will become more and more cheerful.
9. Consciously exercise your ability to speak together on the big stage, which is also a good opportunity to exercise your courage and temper your character. If you practice more, you will certainly gain, and the most important thing is persistence.
10. Smile more at ordinary times. Don't give others the impression of being aloof and conceited. Even if you don't mean it at all, learn to smile at others and change your attitude towards life.
