All people have self-esteem and vanity. People want to be shameless. But face is always earned by themselves. The more afraid of losing face, the more we have to strive for it. As long as the result is good, the process will inevitably be embarrassed. We can't wipe off face and do nothing. This is a real society. Everyone has to face the reality. Personally, The look of hard work is very attractive. If you are afraid of losing face and can't do anything well, you will lose face. As long as you dare to take the key step, you have already achieved half of the success. Just go ahead and do it. Failure is the mother of success. If you haven't tried, how can you know the result? If you fail this time, you should summarize the experience and lessons next time. As long as you improve, you will succeed one day.
Embarrassment may be something that most people fear, but in retrospect, everyone's spiritual growth is realized to a certain extent in the process of continuous humiliation, and the more afraid of embarrassment, the more constrained by embarrassment.
It seems that farting in public, falling down in public and stuttering in public are all embarrassing things, which can not be wiped out in everyone's eyes. But on the contrary, even if these embarrassing things become the butt of jokes, how long will others remember? At most, it will not last a week.
There are so many embarrassments in history that future generations can't remember how much. People talk about them, and it's gone forever. So, if you really don't take embarrassment seriously in your heart, embarrassment can't help you!
What should I do when I feel embarrassed when I encounter something very embarrassing
First, calmly and calmly respond to the battle; Don't be irritable; Think twice before you act! Welcome with a smile!
Second, accept your own shortcomings with correct thinking! Solve any mistakes; It is reasonable to argue on the basis of feelings and matters! At the same time, we can see and hear from all directions; Eyes, ears and heart.
Finally: understand that no one and nothing is perfect. Harmony is the most important thing in speaking and doing things! Losing is blessing! Keep the front line of human relations, so that we can meet in the future! Don't make trouble without reason, be arrogant, and go your own way. You should know that there is a heaven outside and there are people on the earth! Believe in the truth everywhere! Unreasonable, no move! Let the truth move others, each of us should understand an old saying; Eight hundred landlords in a thousand years' field, many rich and poor people in a decade, strive to keep pace with the times; Let others judge your merits and demerits!
