How to improve the intimate relationship between husband and wife? How to get through the seven-year itch? In order to avoid the fading of feelings. The reason why the divorce rate is getting higher and higher is that many couples do not have the freshness of the original love period after living together for a long time, and gradually become indifferent. Therefore, emotional freshness preservation is a method that every couple needs to learn. So what can we do to achieve emotional freshness preservation?
1. Recall the good memories together
Looking back on your wonderful interactions and experiences, you should know that the reason why two people can get together must be that they had a good feeling for each other at the beginning. There were also some little things that moved each other. When there are these things, you can take them to review these experiences together. Therefore, we should often find some entry points, and once familiar things, take him to review the past, review the good memories.
2. Be good at discovering the changes of the other party
Be good at discovering each other's improvement and beauty, and give more praise and encouragement. For example, if the other party buys a new dress, they can go there and praise it. Seize every opportunity to praise each other, and they will feel that you still care about them, and you can find their beauty. Everyone wants to be held in the hands of the other half, so we should often pass it on through language and behavior.
3. Increase the emotional positive response to your partner
Increasing emotional positive response to the other half means that when the other party says or asks something, we should bring our own focus, care, and emotion to give the other party some positive feedback. We should not be lukewarm or simply pass it on. Such words will make the other party have no desire to talk with you, so we should often tell the other party what they say and ask, Go to participate in the discussion with the other party with interest.
It takes two people to work together to maintain the freshness of feelings. There are many tips in life that can help us avoid the fading of feelings. Only by keeping the freshness of feelings can we keep the feelings going.
