How to praise others skillfully can make people feel extremely excited? Today, I will teach you two moves so that you can talk in front of anyone.
First move: Praise from point to surface
To put it simply, emphasizing the local characteristics of the other person concretely will make others feel that you are more sincere, which is several times better than those general and general exaggerations. Of course, praising others from one point to another should be supported by facts. In this way, people will not only hear a conclusion, but more importantly, they can infer such a conclusion from facts. For example, when you recommend your colleague to others, no matter how excellent and responsible you praise the colleague, it's just a conclusive expression, without the support of facts and amplification of local characteristics. So another way of expression might be better. You can say, "My colleague is a tough guy in our department who is extremely strict in data, even punctuation marks. We have given him the data for so many years, and the error rate has always been zero." This way of praising others will make me sound better, and also make others have a profound impact on your colleagues.
The second move: seemingly negative, actually positive
It is a kind of exaggeration with reversal and turning point, which often makes others feel more comfortable when they are affirmed. Therefore, we should first use it as if we are denying or criticizing the other party, and then convey a true and positive intention to make the other party feel a roller coaster ride from nervousness to happiness, which often makes others especially excited. For example, if you have such excellent people around you, you can boast about them with sour irony, envy, jealousy and hatred. For example, "I can't stand you being so thin, so white, and so many people pursuing such self support." Or for those who are successful in their careers, "Can you give us ordinary people a bite to eat even if you are so successful?" Such praise seems to be criticizing the other party, but in fact, the feelings conveyed will make the other party feel more comfortable, and will make the other party feel more superior.
If you want to praise others to make them more excited, you can use the above two methods to praise others, so that others can more easily accept your praise, get closer to you, and become more popular wherever you go.
