The worst thing about love is that the other person is just having fun, while you are secretly involved in life. In fact, those humble love is not as happy as being single. They pay attention and pose in front of their lovers, but in return, they turn a blind eye, even laugh. This relationship has no feelings at all. If they meet the following five rules, they should break up.
First, eat soft food. This kind of lovers who rely on their girlfriends to maintain their love relationship is really enough to refresh people's three perspectives. Even if they lack economic strength, they should work hard to make progress! This kind of predatory love should definitely break up.
Second, when licking a dog. Some girls didn't have the life of the princess, but they got princess disease. Always said that she was a fairy, hugged and held high. So in order to cater to their self imagination, the boyfriend knelt down to eat shrimp, asked him to skin, went upstairs, asked him to ride, cook, wash dishes, and washed his underwear. Where there is a boyfriend, they are totally slaves. This dog licking love may only have one result - break up.
Third, engage in extramarital affairs. Some girls are typical scum girls. They will throw themselves at each other without being seduced. Such treatment is nothing more than that for a pure man who meets a scum girl. For a girlfriend who has an affair, it's just a matter of breaking up.
Fourth, help your predecessor find a job
① Some girls have wonderful brains. After breaking up with my ex boyfriend, I still want to help him find a job! It's impossible. First of all, what is the operation of restoring contact with the ex boyfriend? Second, after her ex boyfriend broke up, did she help others find jobs?
② Therefore, when your girlfriend and ex boyfriend are entangled, you must be alert to the possibility of their resurgence. If so, you can break up first to avoid being left in the dark.
Fifth, your girlfriend looks down on you
① I don't know why some couples despise each other. Some girlfriends like to despise their boyfriends who have no cars, no cars, and are ugly If she likes, she can tell you a whole book.
② If you look down on your boyfriend so much, why are you still together? As the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together. When you become husband and wife, it shows that you both like each other very much. If your girlfriend looks down on you, it means that she will never be a dedicated person.
Which 5 items mean you should break up? Why is love not entanglement?
1. The girl doesn't care about your love.
The correct way of love is to love each other. Instead of the despicable gesture of licking the dog today, relying on constant efforts and self touch to win the attention of girls, there are two reasons behind this behavior: either you lick too much; Either the girl doesn't respond to your love, she just enjoys being loved.
2. Girls regard you as a tool person.
Some boys who fall in love with scum girls are not worth liking. In love, they usually regard boys as tools to solve problems and pay for shopping. Therefore, the boyfriend who falls in love with a scum girl is a tool man. If you fall in love with such a girl without breaking up, what are you waiting for? One day she will leave you.
3. Girls have no feelings for you.
Because some girls have never experienced love, they are full of expectations and choose to agree to express themselves under the boy's confession. But in love, they have no feelings for boys. They just cater to each other's performance, and do not fall in love with each other from the bottom of their hearts. This kind of love without emotion is often unreliable.
4. The girl is ambiguous with a third party.
① Some girls have an ambiguous talent, attract people's attention in the crowd, and are keen to communicate with others, which makes many boys think of poaching.
② If your girlfriend keeps an ambiguous relationship with a third party while falling in love with you, then she will never be a girl who can stick to the bottom line of love!
5. Girls don't know how to respect themselves.
① Some girls are too open-minded and dissolute because of the influence of western culture. Many young people often wander around bars, KTV and other places.
② Even if they have contact with their boyfriend, their bad habits are still difficult to change. It's a waste of time to tangle with such a girl.
Love should be the best state for men and women to get along with each other, not the entanglement of wishful thinking. The lovers who really love each other are connected to each other and become one, which is the support of each other's hearts and the source of happiness. However, among those unfortunate lovers, love is just a kind of entanglement. In fact, if you meet the above five rules, you can consider breaking up.
It's time to break up:
1. Half dead, many lovers come to the end. They lose their initial passion and treat each other coldly, making love half dead and dull. Therefore, when your love is half dead, it means that you are not suitable to be together, and it is time to break up.
2. Love that is neither at nor away from each other will make the love relationship very vague. Two people did not break up. When someone asks if they have a partner, they will say yes. But in fact, two people basically no longer have intersection with each other, and each other is dispensable in the other's mind. This kind of love has no need to continue. Love thoroughly if you want to love, or break up quickly if you want to love.
3. Each has a new love and another kind of love. Obviously, two people did not break up, but each had a new love. This kind of love has to break up as soon as possible, otherwise it will be labeled as disloyal. The two people in this kind of love are irresponsible for love. They don't want to solve problems when they encounter them, but escape by falling in love again.
Ways to save feelings:
1、 Find out the reason why two people break up. What is the reason? Is your character too hasty, temper too violent, or the other party too coquettish and picky; Is it because you don't want to make progress or the other party's unreasonable demands are not reliable; Whether you don't meet the spouse selection criteria of the other party or the other party's parents strongly oppose it, etc. We must find out the specific reasons for breaking up with the other party, and try our best to recover this relationship only by taking the right medicine to the case.
2、 Take the initiative to communicate with each other emotionally and ideologically. Find an appropriate time and occasion to communicate effectively with each other. Listen to the other person's true thoughts and see how much hope you have to recover this relationship by your own ability. Be sure of it. Love is mutual, two-way and voluntary.
If the other party is determined to break up with you, or how hard you can not meet the requirements of the other party, you can only accept the result of the break up; If the other party is still hesitating or is dissatisfied with your shortcomings in some aspect, you can redouble your efforts to recover.
3、 To admit mistakes, you should sincerely accept them to the other party
