Sometimes in life, unfamiliar colleagues sometimes send us invitations. Some colleagues have never even seen their faces before. You are afraid that if you don't follow them or become less, you will be embarrassed and offend others. If you follow them, you are afraid that you will not come back. So should people who often do not contact be polite? When meeting colleagues who have no personal contact with each other, you should follow these three principles, so that you will not suffer losses or offend others.
1. Principle of character
You can learn about the character of this person from the side channels. If you know that this person is a person who likes to take advantage of small things and tries to pluck hair from others when he catches the opportunity, then you may as well not follow him. He is not familiar with him anyway. However, if this person has a good character, is highly recognized by everyone, and has a wide range of contacts, then you can take this opportunity as an opportunity to expand your contacts and meet experts. People with good personality like this also have a better future development space, and at least make friends with each other.
2. Principle of interests
If you have an interest binding relationship with this colleague, or you usually have an interest relationship with him, such as his superior subordinate relationship with you, such relationship must go. Of course, if it is a kind of collaboration between other departments and there are contacts in the work, in this case, in order not to affect the future work, the proposal should be accompanied by a copy.
3. Principle of measuring strength
In the workplace, people should never blindly compare with each other. Because you can't afford to compare with others, you should never face up and suffer. The last thing you feel bad is yourself, so you must act according to your ability. According to your economic situation, how much you can bear, how much you can do with peace of mind, so you must treat it with ordinary mind. Don't feel embarrassed when you are less casual, because you are not familiar with him. It's time to show your heart and do it.
If an invitation is sent to you by a person who doesn't keep company often, you can deal with it through the above three principles, so that you won't suffer or offend others.
