Joking is not suitable for any occasion. In many cases, it is not suitable for joking. If you joke at this time, you will offend villains and make yourself suffer. What occasions are not suitable for joking? What specific occasions are not suitable for joking?
Before you understand the occasions that are not suitable for joking, you should first know that there are two reasons why you can't joke with others casually: first, you don't necessarily know each other. It is certainly wrong to measure the acceptance ability of others with your own standards or those of people you know. Some people are always glass hearted. When you joke with him, he always thinks you are laughing at him. When you joke with him, you will hurt him. 2、 Jokes should be made according to people, situations and situations. Sometimes it's not a big problem for you to joke with others privately, but if there is an important person present, it's not suitable for you to joke. Let's take a look at specific occasions that are not suitable for joking.
1. It is not suitable to play too frivolous and presumptuous jokes with the elder or younger
You should know that you are different in age and seniority. Some jokes should not be played casually. If you make a frivolous joke at the dinner table, what will you let the elders do? When the elder smiled, his realm was lowered. It was awkward not to smile. If there are younger generation and minors present, your jokes are terrible. Let the adults around you think about you.
2. Don't make excessive jokes with the opposite sex who is not in close relationship
Sometimes you think it doesn't matter if you tell some dirty jokes, but it will cause misunderstanding and even make the other party feel that you don't respect him. If an outsider is present, it will even make others suspicious. If someone spreads your gossip behind their back, it will hurt the other party.
3. If the other person has a physical defect, don't make fun of his shortcomings in public
For example, if the other person has severe hair loss, it doesn't matter if you call him "bald head, bald ass" in private, but if you call him that way in public, especially when his favorite person is present, when the more important person is present, it will make others feel disgusted.
4. When your friends are accompanying guests, especially when they want to make a good impression on guests, they can't joke apart
Although you know your friend very well, you know a lot of his private things, and even many things that he can't go on the stage, and very encouraging things, do not joke on this occasion. Because your friend wants to make a good impression on the other party through this social activity, to enhance the other party's trust in him, and even to pretend to be B, to brag, to make the other party feel that he is very powerful. You can't move to make fun of him. You are just trying to wipe his face. So don't joke with him in this case, or your friends may not be able to do it later.
You must pay attention to the occasion when you are joking, and when you are not joking, you must pay attention to it, otherwise it is likely to cause the other party's repugnance, and even later friends will fail to do it, and offend villains. Pay attention to the above four occasions that are not suitable for joking.
