The main points to judge whether a man is reliable or not are distracted. Ouch, I will go. It's the most difficult for people to understand since ancient times. How can it become a routine framework in everyone's eyes
1. The man who is willing to spend money for you is serious about you
If the other person treats money like dirt, such a man will spend some money for you. People don't care. Look at the rich second generation girl. Usually today, she will send a LV bag, tomorrow, she will send a Saint Laurent lipstick, and the day after tomorrow, she will send a bottle of Dior perfume
This is just a small thing for people's own capital. They don't take this money as anything. They buy you a gift to cheer you up. It's too simple to pick up a girl. It's effortless
For a man who doesn't have much money, this is a standard worth referring to: the time of the rich, the money of the poor, and the opportunity of the young
For him, a part of the scarce resources is allocated to you, and he absolutely likes you to the extreme
2. See if you will continue to like you and persist after being rejected
We never pay attention to the opinions of people we don't care about. Since you will pay attention to whether the other person really likes you and is sincere to you, it can explain that:
He has caught your eye, and you are beginning to fall in love with this boy
Let me ask you, a man who likes you says you like him, but you reject him in order to check his sincerity?? Is this suitable?
People's hearts are all flesh and blood. Who is not the baby of the family? Even if the boy likes you to the extreme and continues to impress you, he will let the boy know that you are deliberately assessing after you get together in the future
Individuals will doubt your sincerity. In this world, only sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity
Like is like, don't like is don't like, don't set up a lot of meaningless obstacles, only increase trouble
What's more, today's boys are very sensitive to licking dogs. Who will stick it up after being rejected? Unless it's really charismatic
3. He is willing to work hard for you to become a better person and take care of your emotions
This is more interesting. What is a better person? Who stipulated the judgment basis and standard?
If judged by the moral standards of the general public, a man does not even meet the basic moral standards. Do you dare to be with him? Or you are the same person, what saddle matches what horse
Even if you take ten thousand steps back, the other party has changed from a slovenly guy to a spiritual guy. How can you be sure that it is for you? The only person in the world who can be responsible for his life is himself
There are also those who are willing to take care of your emotions, which is also the same as the above. It is also the most basic to get along well with people around you and take care of their emotions
If you don't take care of the emotions of people around you and make others uncomfortable, who would like to get along with you and communicate with you?
Is it not the most basic requirement for human beings to have the moral quality of behavior politeness?
4. It's important to see if a man's brother knows you
The brothers around know your existence. How can you be sure that he thinks you are his only one, rather than playing with friends casually
Men's brothers always wear pants with them. Even if there is any problem, they will help their brothers cover up, rather than help them see you as an outsider
Having said so much, everyone must still have doubts about how to judge the other party's pursuit of you is sincere?
1. Unfavorable curiosity
A boy who likes you will be extremely curious about you. When you send a message, you will speculate for a long time, secretly analyze your thoughts, send a complaint, ask everywhere what you have been wronged, share your favorite movies, and quickly search for relevant content
You will be surprised to find that this boy you don't know very well seems to know you well. When talking with you, he always has the same interests, understands your hobbies, and relieves your emotions. However, there is not so much fate in this world. Emotions are said to be casual, but it is doomed by three days, and seven people are responsible for it
But a boy who only makes friends will not learn about your interests and cultivate the content that he is not interested in. What you talk about will only be the content that both parties are interested in, and what you eat will also be the content that both parties like
It also means that I am not so interested in you and have no curiosity. The purpose of dealing with you is really simple
2. "Love"
