[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]一个人是怎么废掉的？知乎上这个问答让很多朋友深思，然而有些朋友正走在废掉的路上。一个人废掉到底有多可怕，废掉的人的生活又是什么样的。下面是来自几位知乎网友的回答，希望大家都能做一个元气满满的人，对生活永远积极向上。[/vc_column_text][vc_tta_tabs shape=”square” color=”vista-blue” active_section=”1″][vc_tta_section title=”@泠川” tab_id=”1596426263427-0e0c1f83-5abb”][vc_column_text] 1. Fear of change and have no courage to stop loss in time. Either indulge in the glory of the past, or yield to the stability of reality. There is only one life. Life is short and full of difficulties. Only by listening to your inner voice can you live a life that will not be abandoned.
2. Only accept fragmented information, without systematic and complete combing and thinking. Brush microblog, brush Zhihu, passively accept a lot of information, but do not think independently, do not form their own views, enrich their hearts.
3. Procrastination, procrastination and procrastination. Do it in the afternoon, in the evening, tomorrow, next week, next year
4. No summary and output. The knowledge that cannot be output is always the knowledge of others. Only by integrating the knowledge into your own logical system and outputting it through your own way of thinking can this knowledge be truly used by you.
5. Indulge in the sense of short-term achievement and do not make long-term investment. As a result, many people are addicted to playing online games, reading cool articles, micro blog lottery and other things that can gain a sense of short-term achievement, and have no perseverance to exercise and study. But in fact, these things that can only see the return through long-term efforts will make a qualitative leap in life.
6. Drift with the tide on weekdays and lie in bed on rest days. The lack of planning for their own work and life can only be "scrapped" in the end.
7. Tread on the body. Good health means abundant energy, longer working hours and more concentration than others. It also means that you can stick to more difficult things with less perseverance.
8. High vision but low skill, not much reading, not much work, too much thinking. You can't settle down to do things. You always dream that you can do this and that. You place hopes on the past or the future, but you are unwilling to make efforts in the present. Do not read, do not work, indulge in fantasy, worry about gains and losses. Ten thousand decisions have been made, but they are unwilling to implement one.
9. Long and meaningless stay up late. Staying up late is not only harmful to the body, but also directly affects the work efficiency, mental state and social mood of the next day. It is the night of the day and the second day that the meaningless stay up late destroys. Staying up late for a long time will lead to inefficient life day after day.
10. You can't walk out of the "comfort zone" without the courage to try new things. Stubborn, content with the status quo, living an unsatisfied life but dare not give up, facing the future of multiple choices but dare not pursue. Fear of hardship and fatigue, fear of failure, unable to walk out of their own "comfort zone".
11. Don't invest in your future. Just look at the present, not the future, do not understand financial management, do not buy insurance, do not invest in themselves. The younger you are, the more you need to know how to invest in yourself, and the greatest return you can give yourself.
12. Uncontrolled living habits. Eating profligately, drinking profligately, indulging in games, refusing to exercise, constantly indulging oneself, not forming healthy living habits, not knowing how to control one's own desires, body and will are consumed in indulgence.
13. Be occupied by external trivia. There is no clear plan for life. Soldiers come to stop, water comes to cover up, what things are forced to do in front of you, you can't judge, you don't know how to refuse, you are occupied with a lot of time by some meaningless trivial things, and you are exhausted every day without substantive progress.
14. Mechanical work, refuse to think. I work mechanically every day without asking why or thinking about better working methods. After years of work, my ability has not been significantly improved.
15. Lack of "high pro social density". Here, "high affinity social interaction" refers to high-quality spiritual communication with people who really have close relationships. Having several relatives and friends who can conduct "high density social interaction" in life can greatly reduce stress and depression. As long as there is a person who really understands you, you will never be lonely. Please cherish such people.
很多人一定都是这样：并不是不知道应该做什么，而是明明知道应该做什么，却无法下定决心去做，或无法坚持做。并且越是这样，越觉得自己“废了”、“没救了”，焦虑不已，干着急。[/vc_column_text][/vc_tta_section][vc_tta_section title=”@增加” tab_id=”1596426263444-5badd4f0-231e”][vc_column_text]
