The age difference between husband and wife is best around 7 years old, and the man is a few years older than the woman is more harmonious.
10. In the mature stage, women develop several years earlier than men. Females begin to develop at the age of 12, while males do not reach puberty until the age of <>. When I was in elementary school, I noticed that the tall ones were girls, and the boys didn't suddenly grow taller until they were teenagers. In terms of psychology, women are always much more sensible than men, and men's mental age is a few years younger than they actually are. Get married and find someone who is seven years older than yourself, who is older than you in your heart, is more considerate and caring for people in life, and will be more able to deal with the conflicts between husband and wife, and consider things more maturely and steadily, which will not cause the intensification of contradictions and effectively reduce the occurrence of contradictions.
Second, the man is seven years older than the woman, has a financial advantage, and is more able to take care of the family. The woman was 23 years old when she graduated from college, and the 30-year-old man was 30 years old, and the <>-year-old man was relatively more financially stable, with a certain amount of savings, a certain amount of financial ability, and a stable career. The woman is just starting out, and the economy is not enough to support the family, so finding a man who is relatively older can improve the economic conditions, create a more comfortable life for the family, and more effectively reduce the occurrence of family conflicts, so that the family is more harmonious and the relationship is more stable.
25. The best age for women to have children is between the ages of 30 and 30, while for men it is a few years later, at the age of 35 to 30. If the man is about seven years older than the woman, the childbearing age is the best, the baby born at the best age is smarter and healthier, and for the woman, giving birth at the age of <> is also good for her own recovery. The way the husband and wife get along with each other and the way they deal with each other are very important, and improper handling can easily cause cracks in the relationship between the husband and wife. Both parties are more mature in their hearts, can reduce the friction caused by getting along, be more considerate of each other, forgive each other, and qualitatively improve the quality of life of their families.
The best "age difference" between husband and wife is 5~8 years old.
According to the data mentioned in the sociological analysis of the age difference between spouses in China, the best age difference between husband and wife should be 5~8 years old, and it is best that the man is larger than the woman. Foreign experts have done research on 1534,5 couples, and found that if the man is about <> years older than the woman, and both parties have the same personality and personality and have common hobbies and interests, and both have higher education, then they can better maintain a marriage.
This is because older men are generally mature and experienced, which are very conducive to maintaining the relationship between husband and wife, and when facing some difficulties and choices in married life, they will know how to judge, and they also have a strong sense of tolerance and patience.
Analysis of the benefits of husbands being older than their wives:
1. Generally speaking, older men have a heavier sense of responsibility than younger ones, and when they encounter problems, they will consider the problem more comprehensively, will not quarrel, will take the initiative to communicate, and will be more considerate of their families, which is beneficial to the stability of the family.
2. Men are older and have more social experience, so they can put forward certain opinions for women in their careers and understand the hardships of women in the workplace.
3. Sufficient material conditions are also an important factor for the two to get along, if the age difference between the two is about 5~8 years old, it shows that the husband and wife have successively gained a firm foothold in society, have a certain material foundation, and have sufficient economic support, and will not quarrel over money when they get married, and the marriage relationship will be more stable.
First of all, we all know that there is a definition of male and female development: girls are early and boys are late, and from the perspective of eugenics, the best childbearing age for girls is 25-30 years old, and the best childbearing age for boys is 30-35 years old.
Therefore, I think that 5 years old is the boundary, and the age difference is 3-5 years old, not more than 5 years old, and about three years old is also the most suitable from the generation gap. In addition, if it is based on love, then age, gender, race, and skin color are not a problem, and it is even said that there are people who have broken through the boundaries of species and life. If marriage is used as a means rather than an end, whether for money or gratitude or other bizarre reasons, age is not a problem, because the influence is too small.
If you are rushing to get married and live a life, then my opinion is that the two of them must at least have the basis of communication and communication when they live together, and then at least they must be able to communicate with each other in the future, otherwise it will be contrary to the original intention.
In the latter case, at least one of them is required to be tolerant and accept and guide education, and the age gap can be relatively relaxed, but the requirements for one of them are very high. In the former case, at least the two people are required to have a similar world view and no generation gap in communication, of course, this requirement is actually related to personal quality. As far as I know, the age difference is within one round, and it can be talked about together, and there are also cases where there is a difference of seven or eight years old who loves each other very much, and generally speaking, the difference of five years is more common.
The conclusion is that it varies from person to person, and the basic requirement is to see if the two can call. Generally speaking, it is best to have a difference of five years old, seven or eight years old is acceptable, and a difference of ten years can barely understand it, of course, extreme examples such as 28 and 82 are not nothing......
