The difference between a married woman and an unmarried woman
1. Before marriage, unmarried women usually maintain a ladylike image to meet the expectations of society and men. They show gentleness, coquettishness and other traits in front of their boyfriends to stimulate men's desire to protect. However, after marriage, these women tend to change their image, defend their rights, and may even show the characteristics of a woman. They want to know their husband's whereabouts, financial situation, etc., to ensure that he is faithful.
2. Before marriage, women may seek financial support from their boyfriends to help their families. But after marriage, women's focus often shifts to their new family. They may receive funds from their mothers' families to support themselves and their husbands.
3. Before marriage, women may be regarded as princesses in front of their boyfriends and enjoy the treatment of being pampered. However, after marriage, they may need to take on the role of nanny in front of their husbands, taking on household chores and other responsibilities in the family.
Fourth, when choosing a marriage partner, a woman may have a lot of requirements for her boyfriend before marriage, worrying that her husband will be unfaithful after marriage. Married women tend to work hard to manage their marriages and make sure that their husbands don't change their minds.
5. Before marriage, women are full of longing for married life and look forward to fairytale love stories. However, after marriage, they may find that married life is far less beautiful than they imagined, but full of trivialities and challenges in real life.
The difference between a married woman and an unmarried woman
1. Have a stable identity
Marriage means obtaining a marriage certificate, and a marriage certificate is equivalent to being protected by the law.
If you really love each other very much, you will be very happy, you have finally started to enter each other's household register, you are a member of their family, and you will have another identity in the future, your wife, which is a very proud thing.
Getting married with your lover is a sign of love. It is also a man who makes a long-term promise to you.
Getting married means that you have a stable identity between you, which is undoubtedly a good choice for insecure and sensitive people.
Second, the future plan has you
I have said countless times that when you see whether a person really loves you, you just need to understand whether he has you in his future plans, and when he proposes to marry you, it means that he wants to put you completely into the plan, which is a manifestation of love for you.
Women are always very skeptical about whether a man loves himself, whether it is just a momentary emotion, not a temptation, at that time, you have to see if the future plan has you, with you, it means that you are indeed tempted.
Therefore, the future plan is equal to the goal of the future, and it is also the most important thing, just like his world, and when he is willing to bring you in, or open the world for you, you must understand that marriage is a choice to spend the rest of your life with the other party, and it is also a decision in your future life.
3. Have your own offspring
In addition to getting married, a woman's greatest wish is to have a crystallization of love with her lover and give birth to a child together. Watching this child grow up is the best thing.
A woman once told me: "I was afraid of pain and didn't want to have a child, but I thought that the child was the crystallization of two people and the best gift for him, so I insisted on giving birth." Seeing his happy smile, it was all worth it. ”
The meaning of two people getting married is to continue their genes.
From the child's body, you will slowly find that he has the shadow of his father and the shadow of you. The experience of watching your children grow up every day is incomprehensible to those who are not yet married. And this process of nurturing children to grow up is also the most valuable wealth in life.
Fourth, marriage will bring warmth
Marriage is not all vigorous, there are also plain, more with firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.
I have always thought that the happiest relationship is not the sweet words when you fall in love, and it is not the promise of the mountain alliance and sea vows, but has experienced a lot of hardships and pains, we are still by each other's side, holding your hand, smiling flatly, there are many endless topics, never feel bored, talking about trivial things every day, and I will not feel tired, this is probably true love.
There are lyrics that are well written: "The old days have become slow, cars, horses, and mail are slow, and there is only enough time to love one person in a lifetime." "The so-called slowness is probably to meet slowly, and then like it, and then fall hopelessly in love with each other. After experiencing the baptism of the years, I still love that person and live a good life with him.
I believe that most people still need the warmth of their families. Marriage may have many drawbacks, but everyone needs to have a home.
Finally, I would like to say that if you want to have a good marriage, then try to find the right person, who is willing to accept your strengths and weaknesses, and who will accept you as you are, even if you are not perfect.
For feelings, sometimes you can't force it, and you need to be patient. Only by marrying the person you love is what marriage is the way it is. When that day comes, you will naturally understand that marriage is not a grave, it is a new beginning in life and the beginning of happiness.
A married woman knows understanding and tolerance, and an unmarried woman expects understanding and tolerance;
A married woman wants to escape from the grave of love, but an unmarried woman is digging the grave of love;
Married women are afraid and envious of unmarried women, and unmarried women sympathize with and yearn for married women;
A married woman spends money in moderation, and an unmarried woman spends money in moderation;
It is an obligation for a married woman to go to the kitchen, and it is an interest for an unmarried woman to go to the kitchen;
A married woman wants to dress herself up to reassure her husband, and an unmarried woman wants to dress up to make her boyfriend happy;
A married woman is sweet, because she has the warmth of home, and an unmarried woman is free and easy, because she has no fetters of home;
A married woman revolves around her family and is a family lover, and an unmarried woman revolves around herself and is a narcissist;
A married woman annoys her family and talks about her family, and an unmarried woman annoys love and talks about love;
Married women have worries, and unmarried women are more lonely;
A married woman thinks that fate is not enough, but also has the courage to bear fate, and a woman who is not married thinks that fate is fate and does not need to bear it, and when fate is gone, there is no way.
A married woman is less naïve, more charming, less fantastical, more realistic, less passionate, more bland, less flirtatious, more warm, less harsh, more understanding, less hypocritical, more maternal love, less impulsive, and more responsible; Unmarried women are more romantic, less pragmatic, more youthful, less experienced, more picky, less tolerant, more lingering, less caring and more arrogant, less satisfied, more delicate, and less mature. More impetuousness, less commitment.
