1. The "seven-year itch" generally refers to the fact that people may feel bored and bored due to the dull rules of love or marital life in the seventh year of love, and have to experience a crisis test (extramarital affairs, affairs, and stealing may occur);
2. "Eight years still alive" means that they are still together after eight years of marriage;
3. "Nine years without regrets" means that you have not regretted marrying your partner after nine years of marriage;
4. "Ten years together" refers to ten years of marriage, which will be accompanied for a lifetime.
Factors that cause the seven-year itch
1. Life is too lonely
Most divorced couples are separated from each other and do not have a normal sex life, and the relationship is not as passionate as it was at the beginning. At this time, if one of the spouses can't bear the loneliness, and there is a third person, the marriage may fall apart in an instant.
2. Lack of understanding and care
Most men, due to their social roles, are sometimes more reluctant to speak out about their pain and stress, but often bury them in their hearts, and at this time, men need to understand. Women have their own jobs, take on more family responsibilities in the traditional sense, and crave the care of their husbands in the face of fatigue.
It is inevitable that there will be negligence on both sides, and there are too many trivial things in daily life, always taking care of one thing and losing the other, and every day on each other's computers, televisions, and telephones, life has completely become monotonous and gorgeous.
In fact, it is okay to enjoy a high-quality life, but it is best not to become a slave of a high-quality life.
3. Disharmony in sexual life
The confessor said: "Chromophobia also." "The so-called chromophobia also means that sex is just as important as eating. There is an old Chinese saying: "People are iron, rice is steel, and if you don't eat a meal, you will be hungry." "If the couple's sexual life is not harmonious for a long time, then the married life is not happy enough.
4. Too much work pressure
Modern society has bred many "modern diseases", with high work pressure and a tight pace of life. It is easy for a husband to bring his work emotions to the house, but when he goes to bed, he is still thinking about work, and naturally he can't lift his spirits, let alone sleep well.
And most modern women are no longer housewives, because they have their own careers, and their self-esteem and self-confidence are also forced to the extreme by work. They also often work hard, and they are exhausted when they return home. At this time, men and women are most likely to have conflicts, and their emotions will be more irritable than usual.
5. Derailment
The reason for the progress of modern society is that women are given more opportunities, and women are becoming more and more capable, and batches of outstanding representatives have emerged.
The emergence of strong women has disrupted the original Chinese-style tradition of female protagonists and male dominances, and has become the result of big women and small men, capable women have made men accessory, so men don't want to improve themselves, but they only dare to find the feeling of being a man in other women.
The "seven-year itch" is a marriage phenomenon, which means that marriage is married through love, and when the marriage enters the seventh year, with the familiarity of the husband and wife, romance and chic disappear with the pressure of life, which is the first dangerous period for marriage to enter. The "seven-year itch" is a foreign term that originally meant that many things would go wrong in the seventh year without the will of man, and it was often used to explain the negative state of marriage.
The so-called "seven-year itch" refers to one year of freshness, two years of familiarity, three years of boredom, four years of thinking, five years of planning, six years of stupidity, and seven years of action. Another way of saying it is that people start to go through a crisis in the seventh year or so after marriage, and then there will be two outcomes: either the marriage will develop in a benign and healthy direction, or the two will go their separate ways and fall apart, which may eventually lead to the dissolution of the marriage and the separation of labor.
When a marriage reaches its seventh year, all sorts of problems arise. From acquaintance to love, there will be certain surprises every step of the way. And after the husband and wife get married, the two people also understand each other better, and the shortcomings of both parties are exposed, so the two also hate each other. At this time, one of the spouses will have an inner itch and want to find stimulation outside of marriage. Of course, it is an objective law that every seven years must change, but the seven-year itch is just an excuse for people who have incompatible feelings for themselves, and people who really know how to manage life are not afraid of the seven-year itch.
The seven-year itch means that love will enter a dangerous period after seven years.
The Seven Year Itch first came from the American movie "The Seven Year Itch" released in 1955.
On average, human cells complete their overall metabolism once every seven years, but in fact, this is a cumulative number of years, and the replacement of cells in the human body is not carried out at the same time, but is completed one by one. The "seven-year itch" generally refers to the fact that people may feel bored and bored in the seventh year of their love or marital life due to the dull regularity of love or marital life, reach the burnout period, and experience a crisis test.
The Seven Year Itch's Algorithm:
Claim 1: Marriage and love can be counted, from the first year of your relationship with that person, until the seventh year, if you have been talking about breaking up for seven years, it is a seven-year itch, and the same is true for marriage.
Claim 2: Of course, it started after marriage, or from a de facto marriage, without really being united and living together, both parties remained fresh and mysterious, and boredom began with familiarity.
Argument 3: Start from living together, because when you first fall in love, you can't experience the difference in concept if you don't live together, and there will be a lot of troublesome things when you live together.
