The first time you see your parents, you must prepare some gifts, which is the traditional custom of our country, and it is also to show your respect and love for the elders.
1. Optional gifts for the first time to meet parents
1. Hometown specialty
If you and your partner are from different places, then you can prepare some specialties from your hometown when you go to meet each other's parents, which will give the elders a warm feeling, and also help to find topics when chatting, and you can talk to your parents about some hometown characteristics according to the specialties you bring.
2. Massage equipment
Parents to a certain age, legs and feet more or less will have some problems, massage equipment for them is the most intimate items, the first time to see the parents with massage equipment is best to choose a smaller, easy to carry, and also to take into account the convenience of parents to operate, if you buy the equipment parents will not use it is more embarrassing. 3. Clothes
Giving your parents clothes will make them feel that you are a person who is suitable for marriage and life, and it can also reflect that you are a delicate person, but the clothes you buy must fit, if they are not suitable, they will make their parents feel dissatisfied and affect their first impression of you.
Second, the principle of choosing gifts
1. Choose items that are suitable for the elders
Since it is a gift brought by parents, then this gift should first be suitable for the elders, the wrong type of gift will make people feel that you don't care, if the other party has children or other people in the family, it is best to prepare their gifts. 2. The price is reasonable
The first time you give a gift, you can't give too valuable things, you have to consider the other party's family situation, send an item at the right price, sometimes the value of the item will also have an impact on people's favorability, which is also a test of your handling of the details.
3. Choose according to your parents' preferences
Before going to meet the parents, it is best to learn about the preferences of the other parent's partner first, and give the other person what they like to win their favor, and also rule out some gifts that are not suitable for giving.
When meeting parents for the first time, you also need to pay attention to dress, politeness, conversation and other related matters to leave a good first impression on the other party.
When the relationship between two people reaches a certain point, they will meet each other's parents. When a boy meets his girlfriend's parents for the first time, the etiquette must be done, so in addition to being humble and polite, you also need to prepare a gift for the meeting. The following is a list of gifts that need to be prepared for the first time to meet the woman's parents, so let's take a look.
1. What to buy at my girlfriend's house for the first time
1. Fruits
Fruit is the most common and unmistakable gift, but there is a certain amount of skill in choosing one. Generally speaking, when you meet your girlfriend's parents for the first time, don't choose common fruits, such as apples and bananas. You can choose peaches, cherries, kiwis, etc., and choose a gift box, which is instantly tall.
2. Health care products
As a gift for your elders, there is always something wrong with being healthy. However, it is necessary to choose a more popular gift of supplementing nutrition, such as calcium tablets, vitamins, protein powder and other health care products are good meeting gifts, not only the woman's parents can use it, but the woman's grandparents and grandparents can also take care of it, which is very practical.
3. Specialties
If two people are not from the same place, then souvenirs are a good gift. Bringing your own local specialties to the other party's parents will also seem to take this meeting very seriously.
4. Tobacco and alcohol
Tobacco and alcohol are gifts that they like, and generally speaking, they are also gifts that will not go out of the wilderness.
2. Precautions for meeting the woman's parents for the first time
1. Show your self-cultivation
When you meet for the first time, impressions are very important. The woman's parents hope that their daughter can find a person with cultivation and morality, so when meeting the other party's parents, they must show their good cultivation, politeness and honesty, and a humble attitude.
2. Don't talk to your girlfriend
Proper show of affection can make the woman's parents think that the relationship between the two people is very good, but if you keep kissing me and praising me, I will make the woman's parents feel that you are not very reliable and too frivolous. After all, the purpose of this time is to obtain the approval of the other party's parents, and you need to face the woman's parents.
The first time I saw the woman's parents, what to give
1. Traditional gifts
When meeting with in-laws, the traditional greeting gift is the most suitable and safest gift. Whether it is the best tea and high-end wine that the male parents' family likes, or the Ejiao cake, bird's nest porridge, cordyceps sinensis gift box that the female parents' family prefers, etc., these gifts are high-end, atmospheric, and high-grade, which can make your gift giving more face.
2. Choose a gift that the other person is interested in
In addition, if you don't understand the preferences of your in-laws, you can inquire about them from the side of your children, so that the choice of gifts is targeted, and you can really send gifts to your in-laws. The gift selected in this way must be the favorite gift of the in-laws, which can reflect your good intentions.
3. Health and wellness gifts
Nowadays, under the trend of health boom, gifts have to be given health, especially between the in-laws of the same age, who can best understand the importance of health problems, health gifts as a meeting gift, such as massage mats, foot baths, health pillows, etc., can make the other party feel that you are a person who is very good at life, and is more willing to become a child with you.
4. Don't give gifts, invite the woman to dinner
There are also people who directly invite the woman's parents to have a meal in the hotel outside, in fact, there is no need to give gifts, mainly because the current gift does not know what to choose, for fear that the woman does not like it, it is also a very good choice to simply eat a meal together, but the hotel you choose should also have a little grade, so that the other party can feel that you value each other very much.
5. Fruit basket
First of all, the packaging of the fruit basket must be too eye-catching, that is, it must look good, so that it is better to give it to others. The second is the inner fruit basket, which includes two aspects: on the one hand, the color of the fruit, the color should be bright and good-looking, and the color should be full.
