In social interactions, giving gifts has become an important way to communicate with people, but if the other party refuses to accept the gift, it will feel embarrassed and helpless. If the other party refuses to accept the gift, you can respond politely according to different situations.
1. If the gift is not valuable, then put down the gift and leave:
This scheme is suitable for when things are not valuable, you can find a place to put them down directly, and then inform: "Although it is not a valuable thing, it is light and affectionate." That's it, you get busy first, I'll go first. "Generally, the other party sees it as a small thing, not precious, and if you insist, she will forget it.
2. If the occasion is not suitable, provide the other party with a choice:
If the occasion is not suitable when giving it, the other party may be too lazy to take it or afraid that outsiders will see it and it will be inconvenient, so they will directly refuse. But if you ask, "Do you put it in the office or just in your car?" He may choose the latter, because one may habitually choose one of the options.
3. If the other party refuses, give up the gift:
Don't keep pestering and lead to an embarrassing stalemate between the two sides. Generous is the greatest courtesy. Directly and generously retracted, following the other party's words. If the other party refuses because there are many at home, you can reply: "In that case, then I will take it home myself, and I will choose another one for you next time." ”
When the other person refuses to accept a gift, the first thing you need to do is to thank the other person and show that they understand the other person's decision. Gifts are given out of kindness and gratitude, not by asking or expecting anything in return. At the same time, it is also necessary to show respect and understanding for the other party, and do not make the other person feel that they are coercing, coercing or challenging the integrity and values of the other party. Therefore, it is necessary to reply to the other person in a frank, friendly, and polite tone.
Further, you can consider responding differently for different situations. For example, if the other party explains that the reason for refusing the gift is out of consideration for their own consumption principles and taste, we can express understanding and ask the other party if there are other gift options that are more suitable for our appreciation and use. If the other person expresses concern that it will not be possible to return the gift afterwards, we can show that the other person cares and show that our purpose is only to show gratitude, and we don't need anything in return.
In addition, sometimes we may need to get the other person to receive the gift in some way. For example, we can provide more information, such as the source, meaning, and gratitude of the gift, or provide the other person with more choices and conveniences, such as how the gift was delivered, when and where, and so on. In these ways, the other person can better understand the original intention of the gift and accept it more easily.
In general, when the other party refuses to accept a gift, we need to treat each other politely, convince the person, respond with a friendly attitude, and at the same time respect the other person's choice and decision. When encountering this situation, we must first calmly analyze the reason for the other party's refusal, and then give an effective response. The ultimate goal is to maintain and enhance the relationship with each other, not simply to create arguments and disputes over gifts.
