Most boys who fall in love for the first time will have a feeling that when they love a girl deeply, most of them behave like a child all day long "simple and naïve and stupid", because when there is no defense and too many distractions, the boy will be like a child. But I put my heart and hard work, but in exchange for my girlfriend's incomprehension, indifference, and even breakup.
So a lot of boys are going to ask, is it wrong to care about her every day? The answer is yes, but it depends on how you care and how you express it.
Boys can behave innocently, but they should be divided into occasions, scales, and situations.
So here, I will briefly talk about how to use the best way to meet the other party's requirements and also satisfy your own heart.
1. Don't be reasonable when your girlfriend is emotional to show your so-called maturity
When a girl does something wrong, she likes to confide in her boyfriend. Many boys feel that the time has come for them to behave. is very rational to analyze what is wrong, what to do, how to change, and even have a respectful tone to educate his girlfriend. This kind of behavior will not only not make your girlfriend feel that you are mature, but it will also make you feel that you don't understand her. What you have to do is very simple, accompany her to vent, accompany her to scold, accompany her grievances, and send a red envelope appropriately to express comfort.
When can you be reasonable and mature, when your girlfriend really asks you questions that need to be solved, not when you vent your emotions.
2. Positive attitude towards life and outlook for the future
Most girls like to take the initiative to stick to their boyfriends, but they don't like their boyfriends to stick to them every day. And a motivated boy can make a girl have a strong sense of security and dependence.
Boys can spend as much time as possible to chat with their girlfriends for their girlfriends, but they must not give up their studies or work because of chatting, because your personal abilities are an important reference to show your maturity. Guys can also have a good plan for the development of two people, but it must not change from day to day.
A well-planned and self-motivated boy can make a girl feel that you have her in the future, and your efforts will be for her, so that you will feel that you are very manly.
3. Don't have too many friends of the opposite sex, let alone ambiguous
Some boys have a good relationship with the opposite sex, and there are many girls in WeChat, chatting and joking all day long, and even have ambiguous behaviors. This must keep a distance and relationship, otherwise it will not only make your girlfriend think that you are unreliable, but will also label you as a scumbag.
4. Promises and love words are said occasionally, not all day long
When some guys love their girlfriends very much, they will say some sweet love words all day long. In order to express his determination to love each other, he will also say all kinds of love words all day long.
Although the love story is good, you can't listen to it too much. Because there are more love words, there are more commitments, and there are more responsibilities. Maybe you just go out to say love words to achieve inner satisfaction, but girls will take it seriously. When a person promises too much and expresses too much, there will be a lot of details that will be mishandled, and even some things will be forgotten, then the girlfriend will easily understand that you are "high-eyed and low-handed, and you can't do it". So how do you relate to the word reliable? So, we should say less and do more.
5. When arguing, don't say cruel things. Hugging may be more problematic
When girls quarrel, most of them are not to reason with you who is right and who is wrong, but your attitude when you quarrel.
When you quarrel with your girlfriend, a hug, a red envelope, a wall knock, and a hippie smile may be far better than you to reason and distinguish between right and wrong. As long as your behavior and attitude are right, your girlfriend will be discouraged in no time.
Isn't there a saying, "package" cures all diseases. Whether it's a red envelope or a bag, the lethality is amazing.
borrowed a line from the movie, which accurately expressed the girl's concept of love: What I want is not the person who gives me hot coffee in the cold, but the person who accompanies me to eat ice in the rain and eat toothache, I want not the person who guards me, but the person who accompanies me on adventures.
Girls pay attention to the experience of love, and the difference in love is what they want in their hearts.
How do I make my girlfriend want me more?
1. Life needs freshness, and occasionally a sense of ritual.
If two people have been together for a long time, they will be tired and tired, and the cookie-cutter life will make her slowly lose her temper in this relationship, and she will feel that the care from you will fade.
So you need to inject some fresh blood into the life of two people, remember some special anniversaries, take her to a candlelit dinner for two, take her to a double bungee jump, learn her a favorite song to listen to, raise flowers for her and give them to her when the flowers bloom, etc.
When life is no longer boring and monotonous, when life has color, life has truly become life, she will definitely feel your love and care.
2. Don't ignore her feelings while entertaining yourself.
Some people play games from 7 p.m. to 2 a.m., and they don't reply to a single message or answer phone calls, and they think they're very handsome? It's not that they can't play games or have their own entertainment, but they have to talk to their girlfriends when they play games or do other entertainment activities.
Don't go back to messages for three or four hours at every turn, and you can't find anyone on the phone, unless you have a mine at home, otherwise why are people and girls looking for you to fall in love? Find a bag to anger yourself? When you are entertaining and relaxing, let her rest assured, it is the best care for her, because you will not let her worry all the time.
3. Learn to communicate with each other sincerely.
Communication is not something you do wrong, I complain about your shortcomings, and then the two of them fight for each other, and no one will let anyone.
Communication should be two people sitting down calmly, carefully sorting out some things that happened in the past, and proposing some reasonable solutions to existing problems. Falling in love is not a playhouse, a good relationship is also what both parties need to work hard to maintain, when the relationship is "sick", communication is the best "medicine".
Every girl has her own things and needs that she wants her boyfriend to know. Here are some things that may apply to most girls:
Expect your boyfriend to express affection and praise, such as saying "I love you" or "you're beautiful" often.
I hope that my boyfriend respects his feelings and thoughts and does not ignore or despise them at will.
I hope that my boyfriend will really listen to his problems and worries and give positive advice and support.
I hope that my boyfriend will be considerate and caring for him in his daily life, such as giving flowers, cooking, giving a hug, etc.
I hope that my boyfriend has a stable financial source and future plans to bring a sense of security to himself.
I hope that my boyfriend will share his interests and hobbies with him and participate in meaningful activities together.
Hope that the boyfriend will establish deep and sincere communication with himself, sharing life and emotions.
Hopefully, your boyfriend will respect his friends and family and build a good relationship with them.
The above advice is just a few things that are universally applicable, and every girl has her own unique needs and hopes. Therefore, the best way is to talk directly with your girlfriend and understand her needs.
