A month to three months or so. Exercise for about a month to three months, if this man has you in his heart, this man will collapse and miss you, because when the connection is just broken, the man will feel very relaxed, and he will be very happy if no one restricts him, but after about one to three months of disconnection, he will find that life without the other party has become particularly boring, and he will think of the other party's good, he will miss each other very much, and he will realize that he is inseparable from each other, so he will collapse in about one to three months after the disconnection. Occasional disconnection is actually beneficial, it can make two people think of each other's good, but the disconnection time must not be too long, and the best disconnection time is about three days.
Under normal circumstances, the length of time that the other party thinks of you after the disconnection can be determined by the situation of your breakup, and the time is not the same:
1. True breakup: within 30 days.
A true breakup is the final conclusion that has been reached by the two of you after rational thinking. In general, it is quite difficult to get back a boyfriend. The first two weeks after the breakup are your cooling-off period, and you must not take any action to redeem yourself during the cooling-off period, which will deepen some bad impressions in his heart.
The first week after the breakup of two people, you will definitely keep thinking about the breakup, it is a process of deepening memories and scarring, after the two of you have calmly thought about it for the first week, the second week will enter the stage of your forgetting. After 6 days, the memory will slowly fade, that is, the third week after the breakup is the best time to get back your boyfriend.
2. Fake breakup: within 7 days.
If the two of you have a fake breakup, it's just an awkward fight, it's not that you want to really separate. It's just trying to ask the other person for some more emotional value. During this critical period, it is recommended to go the next day of the breakup to make amends. Because of the fake breakup between the two of you, the other party's breakup with you is just her impulse.
He actually wants your heart to value him and give him a little more love. Then you can be spoiled by him or coax him, give him a step down, so that the probability of success will be greatly improved. However, if you ignore him for a week or even 30 days, the fake breakup will slowly turn into a real breakup, and it will be even more troublesome to try to make it back.
The mentality of a married man after the disconnection
1. Be happy
After a married man has an extramarital affair, he must take care of both sides, one is not to be sent by his wife, and the other is to have a good relationship with his lover, so as not to make trouble unreasonably, but when the man is disconnected by his lover, he knows that this is a hint of breaking up, and the mood will become much easier, at least the disconnection is the initiative of the other party, and the lover will definitely not be embarrassed in the future, so the man is happy at the beginning.
2. Loneliness
After the stage of happiness and freedom, the man will feel very lonely, without a lover, and always have conflicts with his wife, he has nowhere to find comfort in his heart, and then he will miss the time he used to be with his lover, so even if he wants to have a space to relax, he also hopes that there is someone who can accompany him.
3. Anxiety
A man will feel anxious soon after being disconnected, he can't forget his lover, after experiencing happiness and loneliness, and then he is anxious about whether to get his lover back, sometimes a man is easy to get infatuated with an affair again, for him, an extramarital affair is an indispensable thing in life, so anxiety is inevitable.
4. Relieved
If a man is cut off and can no longer receive news from the other party, it means that the other party wants to completely cut off the relationship with him, and the man will slowly return to normal life, and he will be relieved of this matter after a long time, after all, the woman who wants to live with him for the rest of his life is a wife, and the lover is just a passerby in life, and it is not a big deal to leave.
After about 20 days of disconnection, it will collapse, and at this time, the man's psychology is divided into three major emotional stages:
Stage 1: Happy Freedom Period
Men are creatures who yearn for freedom, so after the first few days of disconnection, they will all feel reborn, because they don't have to be taken care of by women, they won't be scolded by women for not returning at night, and they won't be stopped from going out with fox friends and dogs. At this time, the man's psychological state was unprecedentedly liberated, and he returned to the freedom of being single. At the same time, you can't contact him at this time, because they are letting themselves go, and no matter how good a woman is, they are not attractive in front of them, so they are happy and free at this stage.
Stage 2: Flat normal period
After the initial self-release, in the middle of the period is about ten days, they begin to live a normal life, occasionally remembering that it is not bad to have a woman who takes care of herself, at least she can take care of the house only in order, but she still doesn't care too much in her heart, because it is okay if she lives alone and no one takes care of her, and she can also clean up her self and prepare to live a normal and ordinary life before.
At this time, he sometimes wonders if you will look for him, and then flashes the thought and then acts as if nothing happened.
Stage 3: Unbearable Thoughts
When the connection is about 20 days old, the man begins to miss the good of the women, but he begins to be unaccustomed to living alone, and feels that he can't see the verbose appearance you used to look like when he comes home, and he will be very lonely and uncomfortable, and finally he begins to regret taking the initiative to find you. Because he finds life without you boring and wants to live a new life with you.
The three major emotional stages of men's psychology after 20 days of disconnection are what every man must experience, because men will one day find that what women do is for them, and once they miss it, they will not be there.
When love disappears, everyone's heart will be hurt, you will feel very painful, the tighter you entangle, the more annoying he will be, on the contrary, if he has you in his heart, you don't pester him, he thinks of you instead, but people who really love each other, there will always be a panic after two people are disconnected for a certain period of time, then if a woman leaves a man, most men regret it soon after the disconnection, and then want to get back together.
