The ones that are deleted will be a little sadder. Because the party who really wants to break up is slowly relieved after the deletion.
The person who deleted first was already mentally prepared to let go of this relationship, but the person who was deleted felt very suddenly, and that kind of loss can only be experienced by the person concerned.
Although they broke up, the one who was deleted felt that they could still be friends in the future, but it was impossible, and they needed to digest the sadness alone.
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Delete the psychology of women after a man breaks up
In a relationship, it is always the woman who is not so easy to let go. Even after a breakup, there will always be a way to get back together; Even if you don't get back together, you won't stop being curious about men, watching men's dynamics and flipping through friends.
In the case that the man does not love the woman or feels that it is inappropriate, in short, there is no chance to get back together, after the two break up, when the woman can't let go, he will play the role of a bad guy and take the initiative to delete the other party, intending to tell the other party his attitude and want her to let go as soon as possible. Both need a new life.
After breaking up, the person who must delete it first is even sadder.
Generally, people who delete WeChat first are desperate for each other, because they have saved enough disappointment, so they decide.
The person who deleted it first always doesn't want to torture himself anymore because he is too affectionate, so he simply breaks it cleanly, and never thinks about it again, he is ruthless, he forces himself, he can't see it, he doesn't think about it.
Only by deleting it can you not feel uncomfortable, can you control yourself not to send him messages, and you will never look at your phone from time to time to see if there is any news from him. If you delete it completely, you will also cut off your thoughts, which may be the so-called out of sight is pure, and the heart is not bothered.
The party that deletes first is afraid that it will be more uncomfortable to see the other party's decisive words, so delete it first.
The party that deleted first was so hurt that he was afraid that he would not be able to withstand the other party's retention and be injured again, so he avoided disappointment again, so he deleted.
Of course, these are two people who have really loved each other, loved each other, because of quarrels, because of contradictions, because of various reasons are not suitable for being together, then the first deletion must be more painful before wanting to break up.
If it's just fast love, then it must be tired first, and one party will delete it first, then the deleted party will be sad, because he still has nostalgia.
If a person deletes another person, how much pain does the person who deleted first have to endure before his finger can press the OK key, and the personal information that is deleted suddenly can't be sent, that feeling is like a heartbeat stopped, do you say that the person who deleted is sad, or the person who was deleted is more sad?
In fact, whoever you are with will quarrel and separate, it is better to leave this life to the person who has quarreled many times but is still unwilling to leave you, because that is the final destination of love.
On the road of love, there will always be wind and rain; Because two people are together, there will always be great contradictions because of some things; In a person's heart, if he loves another person, then the other person is everything in life; So when you can't have each other, you will hate because of love, and then break off with each other; And sometimes, on the road of love, there will be no true love; Therefore, if a person does not love someone, in order to escape from the other party's world and get rid of the other party's entanglement, then he will also become strangers to the other party; So which side is more heart-wrenching, the deletion or the deletion?
If someone who has really loved deletes each other, it will definitely be so painful that you can't breathe
True love is unforgettable and uncontrollable; If you really fall in love with someone, then the other person is everything in your life and the only one in the world; If you really love someone, you want to be with each other and stay together for a lifetime; When you can't be with each other, then you will be very sad and extremely sad; If you really love someone, when you can't get the other person, you will hate because of love, so if you can't be a lover with the other party, you have to be an enemy; So at this time, I will think about deleting everything from the other party and breaking off with the other party completely.
The person who is truly in love deletes the other person because he cannot have the other person; Then the person who really loves must be more painful in his heart; Because the person you really love can't be with the person you love for a lifetime, this is the most painful thing in life; So although he deleted the other party, it was because of the pain in his heart that he ruthlessly deleted the other party; And the other party has never really loved, so it was deleted, it doesn't matter at all, and I don't care; Because in his heart, he has never splashed a drop of waves, so it is impossible to hurt him by any behavior.
If someone you don't love deletes each other, that's a relief
Couples who love each other do not mean that they both have love and love; There are many times when a person's heart has no love for another person at all; And walking together just for the sake of temporary pleasure has nothing to do with love; On the other hand, they are deep, deep; Give yourself without regrets, and hand over your sincerity regardless of returns; But I never thought that the other party's heart was annoyed and tired; Seeing that the other party is always entangled, so in order to escape from the other party, in order to cut off the relationship with the other party, they will do some behaviors to make the two people strangers from now on.
If someone who has never loved is deleted, then this is a relief, he will not hurt, and he will not hurt; Because from the beginning, he had the attitude of playing, so he never gave sincerely; And deleting the other party is because you don't want the other party to entangle you, so deleting the other party is unlikely to hurt in your heart; The deleted party is different, because it means that he has fallen out of love and the other party does not love him; I became the one who was deleted, and the most painful and desperate party; It will hurt so much that you can't breathe, and it hurts so much that you can't breathe.
If you leave because of the injury, you can't let go of it
On the road of love, it is impossible for all to be smooth sailing; When two people are together, misunderstandings, contradictions, and finally hurting each other, that is what happens every day; In a person's heart, he truly loves someone, but he never thought that the other party would always hurt you ruthlessly, always bring you pain, and make you despair; Then at this time, because the injury is too deep, so in a fit of anger, the other party may be deleted; Although he deleted the other party, in fact, his heart was also very painful; And the party that is deleted, because sometimes it is not intentional, will also be very entangled.
If one person loves another person, and the other person hurts him, then in his heart, although he has deleted the other person, he is actually very painful in his heart; Because he is a victim, the pain in his heart will definitely be greater than that of the other party; And sometimes, the other party is not intentionally harmful, but an inadvertent act; Therefore, the other party's heart will also be sad and painful; In fact, such an act is equivalent to losing both; The hearts of both people are sad and painful; It's just that the deleted party is more painful and sad.
Which party is more heart-wrenching or being deleted, in different situations, the heartache is different; First of all, if someone who has really loved deletes each other, it will definitely be so painful that they can't breathe; Because I really love each other, but I never thought that I can't have each other, so I hate because of love, and naturally I can't bear it; Secondly, if someone who doesn't love deletes the other person, that's a relief; Because I have never loved in my heart, then naturally there will be no pain, and the party who is deleted will definitely be desperate; In the end, if you leave because of the injury, you naturally can't let go; At this time, both parties will be heartbroken, but the one who deletes it will be a little more painful.
