The bride and groom can drink and chat on the night of their wedding, plan for the future, sleep directly, and count the money, which is as follows:
1. Newlyweds can sit and drink with their lovers and chat, quietly feel the beauty of the world of the two is about to begin, and many places think that it is very auspicious for the brides to get pregnant on this day.
2. On the day of marriage, they will start planning the future of the two people, after all, there will be a gap between the feeling of really starting a family and what they originally thought, and it is normal for two people to have more ideas about the future, and some people with rich imagination even plan to their grandchildren's generation. It's also a very happy thing to imagine the future with the person you like, and the two of you are going to live together after all.
3. The most common situation is that I am so tired that I fall asleep directly, because there are too many things to be busy on the wedding day, there are many rules in some local provinces, and the marriage procedure is even more cumbersome, and I have to deal with so many groups of relatives and friends, and the bride and groom are tired enough at the end of the day.
4. Most of the newlyweds will nest in the quilt and count how much money they received for today's banquet, while some newlyweds choose to sleep first and then talk about tomorrow, tired all day and just want to sleep and nothing else, but the wedding night is the same as usual, the only difference is that someone will get up with you the next day.
What to do on your wedding night
1. Sweep the bed
The married woman of the man's relatives or relatives, with children and daughters, sweeps the bed for the newlyweds, and also recites some words of blessing to be auspicious.
2. Drink a glass of wine
became a husband and wife, and they wanted to drink a glass of wine on the wedding night, thank each other, and also express that they will share weal and woe and never separate.
3. The bride sews the quilt
The bride has to sew the quilt that has not been sewn, which is a passing scene, indicating that she is more industrious.
4. Wear men's shoes
On the wedding night, the bride will secretly get up and press her shoes on top of the man's shoes, and will also wear the man's shoes, which may mean that she is not bullied by the man and will control the man.
Related legends
According to legend, in ancient times, Tao Tang Yao was king not long ago. Very concerned about the lives of the people. One day he came to the folk to ask for suffering, suddenly came to the general fragrance, there was a beautiful woman in the distance holding the fire floated up, King Yao was stunned, only to know that it was a deer fairy, from then on King Yao was not willing to eat, worried about the fairy, decided to go down the mountain to find the fairy. King Yao led four ministers to visit the "Xiandong Ditch" in the south of Jin, and they couldn't find it for a long time.
Suddenly, I saw a pretty sika deer leisurely coming from the Gu Shooting Fairy Cave, King Yao knew that it was a fairy, so he stepped forward, and when he was about to meet, a big python suddenly burst out, approaching King Yao, King Yao was caught off guard. I saw that the deer fairy had approached her, and with a finger of her hand, the python suddenly trembled and fled in panic. King Yao is tall and burly, dignified in appearance, beautiful and moving in fairies, the two fell in love at first sight, and a beautiful mythical relationship has since been formed.
They got married in Gushu Immortal Cave, and for a while auspicious clouds were swirling, and hundreds of birds were singing. In the evening, when the luan is formed, a cluster of divine fire suddenly ignites on the roof of the cave, dazzling and dazzling. Since then, there has been a custom in the world to call the bride's house a cave house, and the wedding night to be called a candle night in the cave house.
What to do on your wedding night
1. Have dinner
The popular wedding banquet time is different in different places, and in some regions, the formal wedding banquet time is at noon, while in some regions the formal wedding banquet is held in the evening. If it is a wedding banquet at noon, there is usually a small thank-you banquet in the evening. Therefore, the part of having dinner on the wedding night is essential.
2. Haunted cave room
In the past, men and women did not know each other before they got married, and with the lively and laughing hole room, they can break the strange alienation between the newlyweds and enhance the feelings of husband and wife. However, today's haunted cave room is basically a small game for newcomers and familiar relatives and friends to create a happy atmosphere.
3. Calculate the gift money
On the day of the wedding, the guests who come to wish the blessing will bring a gift money, which is basically the wedding custom in all regions of China. Then on the night of the wedding, after the newlyweds send off the guests, relatives and friends, they have to settle the gift money received during the day. If there are mistakes or omissions, so that they can be found in time, and then check with relevant personnel.
4. Eat "children and grandchildren dumplings"
In the old days, the dumplings of the children and grandchildren of Beijing were wrapped by the female family and cooked by the male family. When eating dumplings from children and grandchildren, as usual, a group of children will ask "will you be born?" outside the window. The wife or groom replied, "Yes!" Or simply cook the dumplings half-cooked and let the bride herself say "raw". This is called "begging for words", and it is a good omen for having a child early.
5. Fit together
"Together" means that newlyweds eat the meat of the same animal. "He" refers to the husband and wife drinking with each other, note - it is just a cup and an exchange of cups, not a "cross-drinking wine" that is drunk with arms like many misleading costume dramas.
