Generally, men will not be ruthless to women, but women, often delete each other's contact information at every turn. However, when a man really takes the initiative to delete you from his contact information, it all shows his attitude towards you. Whether it is an ordinary friend or a lover, a man's deletion of a woman's contact information is actually a very ruthless act, indicating that the woman has really done something he can't bear, or that he has a new hatred and old hatred between him and her that will never see each other again, and he will do this.
1. Tired of each other and don't want to be bothered by each other anymore.
In the relationship between men and women, boys are always very decisive when they are ruthless, and once they get tired of each other, they want to quickly withdraw from the relationship and do not give each other a chance to entangle themselves. Deleting a girl's contact information can quickly cut off contact with the girl and no longer be disturbed by the other party, so as to obtain a kind of tranquility.
2. I was hurt in my relationship with the other person, and I couldn't let go of the other person, but I felt hopeless.
If he doesn't delete the girl's contact information, he can't help but want to send a message to the other party, and look through the other party's circle of friends when he has time, which is a cruel torture for him. Only by deleting the other party's contact information can you force yourself to let go completely and not make yourself look so humble.
3. After the quarrel, delete the other party in a fit of anger.
Some boys will have some immature actions after arguing with girls, and deleting the other party's contact information is one of them. This kind of boy is an impulsive personality in itself.
4. Completely let go of each other, there is no need to be friends.
I had a relationship with a girl before, and after the two broke up, they became passers-by with each other. has completely let go of the other party, and I don't want to have anything to do with the other party anymore, there is no need to be friends.
5. He is dead set and doesn't want anything to do with you
When a man deletes his ex-girlfriend's contact information after a breakup, and even uproots everything related to her in the circle of friends, this practice actually shows that he really doesn't love you at all. Deleting everything related to you can be regarded as a chic farewell to his previous relationship, and he hopes to tidy up his mentality and start the next life with a new self.
6. He has a new love, forced by the pressure of his current girlfriend
Maybe sometimes a man deletes his ex's contact information is not voluntary, he may have started a new relationship, in order to be able to show his sincerity to the current woman, he may delete the ex's contact information to gain the current favor. As a human being, many girls now particularly mind that their boyfriends and exes are disconnected, so at the beginning of the relationship, it may force the boyfriend to empty all memories related to the ex, including contact information, of course.
Frequent deletion illustrates at least two points. One is that he can't let go in his heart, and he is very entangled in his heart, and he doesn't know how to treat this woman; Second, it shows that this man himself is a very naïve person.
People who behave repeatedly are mostly accompanied by a lack of self-confidence.
He can't handle his past feelings well, he can't afford to let go, and repeatedly delete the other party, explaining that he has deleted, added back, and deleted again, which is a manifestation of extreme uneasiness in his heart.
He struggled with the past, wasting his existing time on the one hand, and putting himself in a very bad state of life on the other hand.
Constantly entangled will only make a mess of your life, and people who are entangled cannot ignite hope for life, and do not have a strong fighting spirit to live a prosperous life.
In the eyes of outsiders, you are living a life of flux, no one wants to be friends with a person who behaves repeatedly, and no one will accept a person who is entangled and repeatedly in their hearts.
Because entanglement is a negative emotion, it has no way to create value and productivity, and will only produce unnecessary consumption of itself and the things around it. And in many cases, people who are entangled go back and forth, can't think well, and end up playing very bad chess!
If you are always in a very tangled mood, you will not be able to face life with a good attitude.
In every man's heart, there is a naïve child living all his life.
Sometimes he likes to lose his temper, be coquettish, be wild, mischievous, and make a lot of inexplicable actions to the girl he likes to attract the attention of the other party.
In fact, many girls feel like they are taking care of a child when they fall in love with a boy of the same age, which is also a large part of the reason why men and women break up, you can't wait for the child to grow up, your relationship has come to an end.
Why is it that among peers, women are generally more mature than men? There are several reasons for this.
First, the physiological structure is determined.
The physiological structure of men and women is different, and during puberty, women's sexual organs develop earlier and mature sexually early, so they enter the adult world at a very early age and learn to think about problems with adult thinking.
And boys are destined to mature later than girls in this regard, when 12 or 3-year-old girls start to watch youth idol dramas and begin to look forward to beautiful love, boys are still busy playing games and basketball.
When a woman notices that her breasts are starting to bulge and her relatives start to realize the gender differences, she will start to think about how to get along with her boyfriend in the future and what the future will be. At this time, the man was still chatting with his friends about the game and complaining about why the woman was so annoying.
Therefore, this determines that the age of psychological growth is different between men and women, and adolescent women are more mature than men.
2. Differences in the thinking patterns of men and women are determined.
Generally speaking, men are more rational animals, and when they encounter things, they will weigh the pros and cons, rationally analyze the causes, processes and results of things, and seek appropriate solutions.
Women are relatively more emotional, and when men are thinking about how to avoid their parents and play more games, and how to escape the teacher's eyes and ears in class to read novels, women are already longing for passionate love.
In addition, in terms of social ethics, women are advocated to be reserved and not to play the active attacker emotionally, which determines that in a relationship, women are more likely to play the role of a "bystander", so as to better see the relationship and make mature decisions.
There are five possible reasons why a boy would cut out a girl:
1. I haven't let go of you yet, because I still have you in my heart, but I know that you can't do it anymore, so the rational one will choose to cut off all thoughts about you in this decisive way, he is afraid that he can't help but go to you, and he can't help but look at your dynamics, and it's just a torture to do it to him, so he has to delete you.
2. I hope to attract your attention, this trick is generally used by girls, in order to attract the attention of her boyfriend, so he will be deleted. Some guys are like this, this kind of guy will be a little more naïve, but he doesn't really want to cut off contact with you.
3. Completely let go of you, for him, you are a stranger, and it doesn't make any sense to stay in WeChat, so I deleted it easily.
4. He doesn't want you to disturb him, when a couple quarrels, the man wants to be quiet, and the woman wants to communicate, so there will be contradictions, and the man chooses to delete you in order to get a moment of peace, but this situation is quite rare.
5. I don't care about you at all, for him, you don't have anything to make him have a plan, so he just wants to get rid of you quickly, so he will not hesitate to delete you immediately, afraid that you will trouble him.
