In interpersonal interactions, some people will show arrogance by virtue of their status, knowledge, age, etc. In life, we occasionally meet some people who think of themselves as high and have no one in their eyes, and they always show a pretentious and self-respecting appearance, as if they are amazing. It's really uncomfortable to deal with people who are so rude and arrogant. Normally, a person who is pure and arrogant will have the following characteristics, which we can compare one by one, so as to come up with a countermeasure in time to avoid unnecessary trouble.
1. I am the only one, and my eyes are empty. The pure and arrogant think that they are capable, and they have a sense of supreme superiority, thinking that they are great and that others are inferior to themselves. In life, they always go their own way, ignore other people's greetings, have an arrogant attitude, and even when they talk to others, they are often prickly and sarcastic, showing strong self-confidence and conceit.
2. Pretentious and ambitious. The pure and arrogant people are more pretentious, ambitious, and low-eyed, and they can't do it themselves, and he looks down on others when they do it, which is quite a bit of a Kong Yiji.
3. Self-confidence and stubbornness. Pure and arrogant people tend to be withdrawn, self-assured, and like to be lonely and self-appreciative. They like to act as an authority in banquets, often do not listen to the opinions of others, think that they are doing everything right, and have a suspicious and distrustful attitude towards others.
Therefore, we should choose our own behavior from the perspective of how to make ourselves successful.
Go with the flow and affirm them. In general, you should show your trust in people who are arrogant and arrogant, and you can openly show your identification with them on the spot, so that they can fully build up their self-confidence, and help them change their arrogant attitude and become more modest.
Take advantage of their weaknesses and give them a "slap in the face". Some people are arrogant and arrogant because they think that they are superior in terms of status, knowledge, age, etc., so they despise others or attack them in a big way. A famous man said it well: "There are many who praise him as a dangerous thing, because he is pretentious, and when he is exalted, he will fall to pieces." A hard slap in the face may be a good solution. Then you will listen to the advice of the famous man and give him a "slap in the face". But this must be done in a measured manner, not overdone, otherwise it will only make the other party angry.
cleverly stumbling and deliberately embarrassing them. Some people boast of their wealth of knowledge and extensive experience, but they look down on others and show an unbeatable arrogance. To deal with this kind of arrogance, it is only necessary to skillfully set up a difficult problem to suppress their arrogance, because no matter how rich their knowledge and experience are, they are limited in this vast world, and once they discover their knowledge shortcomings, their arrogance will naturally disappear. For example, if you know that he can't dance, but you openly ask him to dance, so that he can expose his "true face of Lushan", I believe that after he shows his original colors in front of you, he will no longer be arrogant and rude to you in the future.
When talking to arrogant people, you must avoid needle-to-needle, if both of you are riveting enough to fire at each other, then the consequences are serious and will lead to the destruction of the relationship.
In life, consider the feelings of others while taking care of your own emotions, so that you can live a good life.
Studies have shown that sometimes, on specific occasions, rudeness is a sign of inner turmoil. It stands to reason that both parties should be polite when they meet, and if the other party is unusually cold and rude, it shows that he has some uneasiness hidden in his heart, and he uses this disruptive tactic to hide his weakness. Therefore, let's not be intimidated by the other person's mask, but respond with a calm attitude.
Often, the guards don't come across as friendly. Although this is not the case for all guards, it is true that the arrogant and rude attitude of many people makes the hearts of visitors angry. The rude attitude of the guards is infuriating, but if we understand their duties and hard work, we may be able to forgive them. Therefore, we need to know that when people have insecurities and weaknesses in their hearts and do not want to know about them, they subconsciously adopt a high-pressure attitude. The security guards, whose duty was to scout suspicious visitors, were wary of unidentified visitors for the first time, so they were naturally unceremonious. If you know them well, they will inevitably put away their cold faces and greet you with a smile.
In life, we sometimes meet such a group of people who are arrogant and unreasonable, who put themselves at the center and never consider the feelings of others. They put their own interests above everything else. When they encounter something, they can leave people speechless. So, what do we do when we encounter such a rude and unreasonable person?
1. Feedback
When you meet a rude and unreasonable person, it doesn't make sense for you to reason with him. At this time, you should learn how to "return in another way". How unreasonable he is with you, and you are as unreasonable as he is. Let him know that you are not easily bullied. Slowly, he will no longer dare to provoke you.
In the past, colleagues in this unit had such a personality, whenever they encountered people or things that were inconsistent with him, he would be foolish and unreasonable. The people in the unit did not dare to contact him. It was this practice that made him even more "lawless". Later, due to some things, he had a friction with a new colleague in his unit. As always, he gave full play to the spirit of "unreasonableness". Surprisingly, the other party is not easy to provoke and has no power to refute. Since then, he has never dared to joke with his colleagues again.
2. Try to avoid contact and don't care
For those who are rude and unreasonable, we try not to contact them, let alone pay attention to them, so as not to get into unnecessary quarrels with them at the source. "Things gather by like, people by like". Getting along with people with similar interests and gentle personalities can also make their personalities better.
Whether it's life or work, try not to be together, because those who are rude and unreasonable will not consider the feelings of others. He is unable to listen to others when his interests or ideas conflict with them. At the same time, if you don't listen to him, he will argue with you to the end.
3. Straighten out your attitude and agree on the surface
When personal ideas and opinions clash with rude and unreasonable people, you can choose to superficially agree and acquiesce instead of arguing with them. But when you actually do things, you still follow your own ideas and don't have to worry about each other's opinions.
After that, if the other person is pestering and arguing with you, you can choose not to respond. After such an experience, he will choose to take the initiative to stay away from you in the future, and will no longer be rude and unreasonable to you. While this may not be very regular, the actual effect is "immediate".
In life, we always meet such and such people. Our attitude towards others should also depend on their attitude towards you. "People respect me for one foot, I respect people for one foot"!
