Many people will have this doubt, that is, whether love at first sight is because two people's hearts attract each other, or whether they see the appearance and "see the color"? In fact, these two aspects should be indispensable factors for love at first sight.
Appearance is the most direct factor in love at first sight. First of all, let's take a literal look at the four words "love at first sight", and the first one is "first sight", which seems to tell us that if you want to fall in love at first sight, you must first use your eyes to see whether the other party is your "dish". If you don't even feel anything at first glance, then you can't talk about any "love". Therefore, the recognition of both sides of the appearance is the outermost reason for love at first sight.
Hearts and minds "attract" is another key factor in love at first sight, and at the same time it is the decisive factor. Therefore, if two people can fall in love at first sight, they not only need to be satisfied with each other's appearance when they first meet each other, but they should also be able to see the desire for love in the eyes of both parties when they look at each other, so that they can be regarded as "love". If two people are just satisfied with each other's appearance, then the two may just think that the other person is a handsome guy or a good-looking young lady, and will not have the "urge to fall in love".
Therefore, love at first sight often requires a combination of external satisfaction and heart attraction, and the inside and outside are consistent to achieve the perfect definition of love at first sight. But you can also see how strict the perfect state of love at first sight is, and it is difficult for anyone in real life to fully reach the level of determining life at a glance, often in the case of satisfying the satisfaction of the appearance or the attraction of the heart, after having the intention of further understanding each other, it is considered to have started the exploration of a new relationship.
Men and women often interact through love at first sight and long-term love, but in life, I think two people don't have a good impression of each other when they meet the first few times, so there is a high probability that these two people will not be together.
Women are more likely to fall in love over time, not so much because of their long-term love, but rather because of their dependence on their other half.
There is already a big difference between women and men when choosing a mate, this society has higher requirements for men, so men want to find the same level or even lower when choosing the other half, but women are different, women are born to be strong, and they want to find a man who stands in front of them to lead them.
There is a saying that women chase men in compartments. In fact, this sentence has a premise, that is, the man himself has a good impression of you, otherwise no matter how fierce the pursuit is, it will only be regarded as harassment. Men are visual creatures, and when he doesn't have any interest in you at first sight, basically there is little chance that two people will be together, even if they are forced together, it will be in vain. Of course, it's not 100 percent, and it's only when you have other more striking sparkles that happen to be what the man cares about, that he can throw away the first impression.
Many women can't tell the difference between touching and love, maybe for a man who falls in love at first sight, they will be able to distinguish love. So when many men chase women, the most common means is to ask for warmth, when you appear in this woman's life every day, and show care and love from time to time, a day or two may not have an effect, but for a long time, most women will sink.
In relationships, in fact, many women are obtaining, whether it is affection or material, while men are giving. Those who receive are more likely to be upset and miserable if they have no source, and those who give may be more relaxed when they stop giving. Therefore, the person who receives is very dependent on the other half, and the person who gives is often enough to live independently.
The so-called love at first sight is called mutual psychological induction in psychology. Generally, it occurs at the age of angry youth. Specifically, when they meet each other by chance, they can hold on to each other for 20 seconds without swimming, indicating that each other produces a kind of biological information transmission. Then, through verbal communication, they have a cognitive liking and a sense of agreement, and they are willing to continue to communicate. This should fall into the category of love at first sight. But love at first sight is not equal to love, love takes time to verify, it is a process of mutual understanding, mutual running-in, mutual recognition and mutual integration under certain conditions. If you can successfully complete this process and enter the marriage hall, it can be called a marriage of love at first sight. And there was love at first sight, but in the process of falling in love, I found that it was contrary to my original intention, and I didn't enter the marriage hall, but I could only look away at the beginning
