Between couples, it is common to have awkward troubles; When two people encounter conflicts, disconnect, or even blurt out the word breakup, it is a more embarrassing situation; During this period, the two people may be in a dilemma because they are afraid of face and are unwilling to "bow their heads" first; In this way, the risk of dealing with emotional conflict is very high, and it is good to change the way you deal with conflict;
There is also a situation where in love, the boy stops for no reason; This situation is also frequent, when girls do not understand boys, it will only increase sadness, and even lead to conflict;
If you want to tell what a guy wants, here's what you need to do:
1. Care about your feelings
Even in an awkward period, for the girl he likes, although he is dissatisfied and entangled; But I still can't help but consider the other party's feelings in everything, for example: I want to deliberately avoid some opportunities to meet, not because I don't like you, but because I haven't thought about how to face you; What if we ignore you when we meet, or take care of you as if it's nothing? It can be seen that after an awkward fight, having a period of disconnection with you is not necessarily a bad thing, but it may also be a way to care about your feelings; He may need some time to digest, or think clearly;
2. Take care of your behavior
After some boys break up, they will still have some actions to pay attention to you and take care of you, such as: I want to know your life status; After the call, comfort your words; After meeting, pick up and drop you off; Occasionally, I will invite you to dinner; These are all performances, and he still likes you; After all, men are different from women, they like it until the end, they are not completely sure, and they will not speak rashly, because they hope to gain a sense of accomplishment in front of the girls they like;
3. Get close to your body
There is a saying: the body does not deceive, when he is willing to get close to your body, there is a close distance with you, most of the time will not really break up; Of course, there is another situation to be aware of here, and girls must not only use their bodies to maintain emotional relationships because of this; If you want to have a long-term relationship, the secret of business is to get along with the relationship between two people, so that the emotions can be warmed up step by step, and the spirit and body can be attracted together; Otherwise, it will only be a short-term infatuation, and it will be difficult to have intimacy between hearts and minds;
is the so-called "little farewell is better than newlywed", that is to say, the occasional awkwardness, if handled properly, is a staircase for emotional escalation; To get this step, you need to have certain knowledge and skills; For example: how to read a man, how to grasp the law of the development of love, how to deal with conflicts in love, how to distinguish whether the other party is the right person, these skills will help you on the road to love, escort you!
Men don't want to really break up
1. Say that you broke up, but still care for you
Under normal circumstances, a man only needs to break up with a woman, then the woman's affairs have nothing to do with the man; Boys will not care about women, nor will they think about how women live; In the hearts of boys, women are nothing and worthless; But when a man doesn't want to really separate, then the man breaks up with a woman in life, but still cares about everything about a woman; A woman's hot and cold, boys remember it in their hearts; In women's lives, boys still care so much; Therefore, it is men who continue to care for women and always do things.
Second, they said they broke up, but they still relied on you
When a boy really doesn't love someone and doesn't want to be with a woman, he will definitely escape from the woman's world and never want to stay by the woman's side; But a man does not want to be separated, even though the man says many sad words to the woman; But the boy still stays by the woman's side, still relies on the woman's side, it is not easy to separate a step, it is not easy to avoid an inch; Because in a man's heart, breaking up is just a momentary cruel word; In the hearts of boys, separating women is such a reluctant thing; Therefore, when a man says to break up, his feet will not move forward.
3. said that they broke up, but they shed tears of remorse
Many times, a man loves someone very much, and after breaking up with a woman, he will shed tears; This is because men really love someone, so they are basically reluctant to separate women; Therefore, when two people break up, no matter how confident the boy is, but tears mean that in the boy's heart, how unwilling he is, he has become a stranger with a woman and a passerby; Therefore, boys have tears of remorse, that is, in a man's heart, he still wants to spend a good time with women, and comprehend the colorful years together.
Fourth, as long as you have hardships, he will solve it as his business
A woman, when your beloved, he broke up with you, but when you had hardships, he desperately came to help you and did your business as if it were his thing; Then there is no doubt that in his heart, breaking up with you is not really proposing to break up; In the world, your continuity is everything, your continuity is everything; He won't be happy if he's separated from you, and he won't be happy without this world! Your business, he will definitely take it, his business to solve.
Fifth, if you have a relationship with the opposite sex, he will lose his temper very much
In the process of life, on the road of life, in a person's heart, he really loves a person, so he doesn't want this person to associate with other people; Seeing lovers close to others, they will feel very uncomfortable; So a woman, if a man, he breaks up with you, but when he sees you interacting with other members of the opposite sex, he shows a very tantrum and is especially unhappy. Then you can say without a doubt that in my heart, I still love you deeply; When he breaks up with you, he doesn't really propose to break up, maybe it's a momentary anger, maybe it's an unhappy moment, a can't move.
Sixth, continue to store your contact information, adhere to the smooth
On the road of love, when you love each other, then others are everything in your own world; When you don't love, then someone else is a stranger in your life; Therefore, if a man sincerely breaks up with a woman, he will inevitably delete everything about a woman, and leave nothing behind; But a man, after breaking up with a woman, still insists on smooth contact with the woman, and still retains all the contact methods of a woman; That can be said that in the hearts of boys, they really don't want to separate women; That kind of breakup is a fake breakup, not a real breakup.
The manifestations of a man not wanting to really break up are: he has not cut off contact with you, still cares about you, protects your interests, treats your business as his own, still relies on you after the breakup, asks about your news, he can take the initiative to admit his mistakes to you, he is suddenly very enthusiastic about you, he begins to cherish the time he spends with you, he will be willing to spend money for you, and he is sad after the breakup.
1. I didn't cut off contact with you
The first thing most people do when they break up is to delete each other's friends. Using the method of disconnection can be a good way to declare your determination to break up, and you can also vent the unhappiness in your heart and vent your inner emotions.
When a man keeps shouting that he wants to break up with you, but in fact does not delete the connection between you, it means that he still has some scruples in his heart, he has some hope, and it is a manifestation of his unwillingness to break up immediately.
Second, I still care about you
After the breakup, you are no longer nominally a couple, but the man still cares about you. Obviously it was a man who proposed to break up, why do you still show concern for you? In fact, it is very simple, this kind of breakup is just a pretext and an excuse for men.
His real purpose is not to be separated from you, but to keep a sense of distance from you, and through this sense of distance, you can feel his existence, so such a breakup is not a genuine desire to break up.
3. Defend your interests and treat your business as his own
In addition to caring, the deeper level is to care about your fundamental interests. When you are bullied, or your interests are violated, they will not hesitate to step up and return to the role of boyfriend.
Maybe after the breakup, you are just classmates, colleagues, and friends, but when a man still guards you and pays attention to you at all times, it is enough to prove that he still loves you. Loving you like yourself, or even treating you more than your own love, such a breakup is obviously not the real purpose of a man.
Fourth, I still rely on you after the breakup
There is a saying that men are not bad and women are not loved, and there is never a shortage of love ruffians in love. When a man proposes to break up with you, but he is cheeky and sticks to your side, I advise you not to waste your efforts. Such men are masters of acting, they don't care about fame and interests, they only have results and goals in their eyes. keeps saying that he doesn't love you, but you can't get rid of him.
5. Inquire about your news
When two people break up, it doesn't mean that they don't love each other, they may just be separated because of some kind of misunderstanding. A man who doesn't want to break up with you, after you say that he broke up, he won't cut off contact with you, even if he is afraid that you hate him, he can't control his desire to know your news and know everything about you.
When he is afraid that you hate him, he will definitely not appear in front of you, nor will he send a message to ask about your current situation, women don't think that so, he can't grasp your information, don't forget, you still have friends, he doesn't dare to contact you, your friends he will definitely contact, know your news from your friends, he is always watching you and worrying about you.
Sixth, he can take the initiative to admit his mistakes to you
When there is a heated argument or argument between you, the man can take the initiative to admit his mistakes to you, showing that he really loves you and that he doesn't really want to break up with you.
Couples often quarrel and even have cold wars over certain things. At this time, if a man can take the initiative to admit his mistakes to you and have a very sincere attitude, it shows that he really cares about you.
When a woman argues with a man, she may blurt out the word "break up" in a fit of rage. At this time, if the man can realize his mistake and sincerely admit it to the woman, then he can still be saved.
If a man not only refuses to admit his mistakes, but rightly says to a woman: "Break up and break up, who is afraid of whom." "Well, it means that he doesn't care about you at all, and he doesn't know how to cherish you.
7. All of a sudden, he's very enthusiastic about you
When you want to break up with a man for some reason, and at this time, he is suddenly extra enthusiastic and active towards you, which means that he does not want to break up with you.
When a man is willing to make appropriate changes for you, for example, he may have been very cold to you before, but he is now very enthusiastic and proactive towards you, then he is aware of his own problems. He wants to regain your affection for him.
Only when a man doesn't want to break up with you will he become more and more enthusiastic and proactive towards you. He wants to prove his love and care for you with his actions.
He also sincerely hopes that you can forgive him for his neglect and indifference to you in the past, and he is willing to make more changes for you. He's going to change for the better. He will make you see a whole new version of yourself.
Because he is afraid of losing your love, he will be happy to show himself, willing to shush you, genuinely care for you, and greet you. He wants to love you silently in his own way. He will no longer easily snub or ignore you.
8. He began to cherish the time he spent with you
When a man starts to value the time he spends with you, it shows that he doesn't want to break up with you. No matter what the reason made you think about breaking up with him, he hopes to cherish every minute and second you spend together.
When a man doesn't want to break up with you at all, he will be especially concerned about the time he spends alone with you. Perhaps, he has become accustomed to your company and love before. He is accustomed to your giving, which leads him to not know how to cherish your love and giving.
It wasn't until he realized that you were complaining about him, and you even wanted to break up with him, that it dawned on him that the person he really loved was you. He doesn't want to break up with you. Therefore, he will cherish and care about the days with you.
When a man knows how to cherish your love and dedication, and is willing to spend time with you, it means that he has you in his heart, and he doesn't want to really break up with you.
In short, when a man doesn't want to break up with you, he will have a lot of abnormal behavior. These abnormal manifestations are reflected in all aspects. I would also like to advise men here, don't wait until a woman is discouraged about you before you want to make up or compensate her. Only when you cherish every minute and second with her, and you can always care about her feelings and moods, will women not break up with you easily.
9. He will be willing to spend money for you
If a man doesn't want to break up with you, he will be very generous to you, and he will be willing to spend money for you. Although it is easy to hurt feelings when talking about money, feelings that do not talk about money often do not stand the test of time.
For example, when two people are dating, you have to eat, go shopping, and watch movies, all of which cost money.
Once you're married, there's a lot of money you have to spend. If a man really loves you, then he will selflessly give everything for you, he will be especially willing to spend money for you, and he will never treat you materially.
If a man is obviously rich, but never wants to spend money for you, he has not even bought you a decent gift, when you are in trouble in life, take the initiative to borrow money from him, and he always refuses, then it most likely means that he does not really love you, and he may break up with you at any time.
To determine whether a man really wants to break up with you, it depends on whether he cares more about you or money. If he values money more than you, then it is clear that he does not really love you, and he may have wanted to break up with you a long time ago.
If he values you more than money, he will take the initiative to hand over the money to you, he is always generous to you, and he is willing to work hard to make money so that you can live a good life, then it means that he is really in love with you, and he does not want to break up with you.
10. It's hard to break up.
If a man breaks up with you, he is depressed every day and has no interest in doing anything. Explain that this relationship is very important to him, and he doesn't want to really break up with you.
Maybe sometimes he will hide alone and secretly be sad, or he will take the initiative to contact you. These actions show that he still cares about this relationship, doesn't want to break up, and doesn't want you to leave his side.
When you first break up, the guy will definitely not look for you, because at this time they want to be quiet and don't want to see you.
Generally speaking, boys who take the initiative to break up are genuine breakups, because boys are more rational, and every decision they make is well thought out.
After the guy proposes to break up, he will enter a cooling-off period, at which time he does not want to see you again and does not want to have any contact with you. The girl should manage her emotions at this stage and try not to contact him again. Whether you genuinely care about him or sincerely apologize, the guy will think that you are bothering him during the calming phase, and he will stay away from you when he is irritable.
