我曾经听到一个女孩对我说： 最幸福的事情，莫过于你暗恋的那个人也正在悄悄喜欢你，I once heard a girl say to me: The happiest thing is that the person you secretly love is also secretly liking you.
但既然是暗恋，说明他还没说，那我们怎么注意到他没说的爱呢?But since it's a crush, it means he hasn't said it yet, so how do we notice the love he didn't say?
其实不难。要知道，爱一个人是藏不住的，早就暴露在相处的细节里了。只是我们缺乏敏锐的洞察力，所以不了解。It's not that hard. You know, love a person is not hidden, has long been exposed in the details of getting along. We just don't have the insight to understand.
那么怎样才能快速理解一个男生对你的看法呢?事实上，他的肢体语言会背叛他：So how do you quickly understand what a guy thinks of you? In fact, his body language betrays him:
1、眼神1. Eyes
一个人的嘴巴会说谎，可是眼睛却不会， 男生是一种视觉动物。当他们喜欢一个人的时候，他们会忍不住盯着她看。即使他不是和你面对面站着，而是在很多朋友的聚会上，他也忍不住一直看着你。如果你身边有这样的男生，说明他其实对你很感兴趣。A man's mouth can lie, but his eyes can't. Boys are visual animals. When they like someone, they can't help but stare at her. Even if he is not standing face to face with you, but at a party of many friends, he can't help but look at you all the time. If you have such a guy around you, it means that he is actually interested in you.
2、站姿和坐姿2. Standing posture and sitting posture
观察一个男生在跟你沟通时候的站姿或者坐姿，同样也能够察觉到一些端倪，Observe a boy's standing posture or sitting posture when communicating with you, and you can also detect some clues.
身体： 是一个对你感兴趣的男孩。和你说话的时候他一般都是脸对着你，而不是单纯的转头。他会真诚的面对你，然后认真的和你交流。Body: is a boy interested in you. When talking to you, he usually faces you instead of simply turning his head. He will be honest with you and communicate with you seriously.
手： 如果一个男孩喜欢你，那么当他和你说话时，他的手不会交叉放在胸前或放在口袋里。Hands: If a boy likes you, then when he talks to you, his hands are not crossed on his chest or in his pockets.
要知道一个人采取这两个动作，说明他对你还是有保留和怀疑的，并不是特别接受你，但是如果他说话的时候把手放在桌子上，说明他想和你更亲近。另外如果他在和你说话的时候保持身体挺直，肩膀张开，说明他已经打开了自己，准备接受你，听你说什么。To know that a person takes these two actions, it means that he still has reservations and doubts about you, and does not particularly accept you, but if he puts his hand on the table when he speaks, it means that he wants to be closer to you. Also, if he keeps his body straight and shoulders open while talking to you, it means that he has opened himself up and is ready to accept you and listen to what you say.
3、肢体接触3. Physical contact
当一个男生喜欢你时，他就会自然而然的想要跟你多创造一些肢体上的接触，并且同时也会观察你的反应， 你可以观察他和别人站在一起或者坐在一起的时候和你的距离是否不同，他和你的距离是否更近。当你和朋友出去聚会或者吃饭的时候，他会不会刻意选择一些离你比较近的地方?When a guy likes you, he will naturally want to create more physical contact with you, and at the same time will observe your reaction, you can observe whether he stands or sits with others and whether he is closer to you. When you go out to parties or dinner with friends, does he deliberately choose places closer to you?
也可能他并不总是有意无意的和你有一些肢体接触，比如摸你的肩膀或者胳膊，在路上走的时候把你拉近路等等。这些都是喜欢你的男生做的肢体接触。Or maybe he doesn't always intentionally touch you physically, touching your shoulder or arm, pulling you closer when walking down the road, etc. These are all physical touches by guys who like you.
4、外形打扮4. Appearance
俗话说的好，女为悦自己者容，其实男生也一样，当一个男生喜欢你的时候，他在你面前也会特别的在乎自己的外型， 所以想知道一个男生到底喜不喜欢你。你可以通过他和你一起穿衣服的方式来观察。当他和你一起出去的时候，或者在你在场的任何场合，他会精心打扮吗?As the saying goes, women are happy with their appearance. In fact, boys are the same. When a boy likes you, he will also care about his appearance in front of you. Therefore, I want to know whether a boy likes you or not. You can see it by the way he dresses with you. Does he dress up when he goes out with you, or on any occasion where you are present?
当他出现在你面前的时候，他是不是改变了过去简单的风格，突然变得精致细致了?衣服是新换的，头发梳得整整齐齐，连脸上的胡子都会刮干净。如果是的话，恭喜你，说明你在他心里一直很受重视，他很在意你面前的形象。When he appeared in front of you, did he change his simple style and suddenly become refined and meticulous? His clothes were new, his hair was neatly combed, and even his beard was clean. If so, congratulations, that you have always been valued in his heart, he is very concerned about the image in front of you.
5、镜面效应5, mirror effect
当一个男生喜欢你的时候，就会很容易出现镜面效应，就是当你做出一个什么动作的时候，他也会下意识的做出一些相同的动作， 在这里，我给你一个小测试方法：你们在约会的时候，你可以试着拿起你的饮料喝一口，看看他下一秒会不会拿起自己的饮料。试着摸摸你的头发，看他接下来会不会摸摸他的头，或者你摸摸你的脸或者耳朵，看他下意识会不会做同样的动作。When a boy likes you, it is easy to have a mirror effect, that is, when you make a certain action, he will subconsciously make some of the same actions. Here, I will give you a small test method: when you are dating, you can try to pick up your drink and drink, and see if he will pick up his drink in the next second. Try touching your hair and see if he touches his head next, or if you touch your face or ears and see if he subconsciously does the same.
6、微笑6 and smile.
当一个男生正在喜欢你的时候，不管你做什么事情，不管你说什么话，他都会觉得“你很可爱!” 所以即使你做了一件不太有趣的事，或者说了一句一点都不好笑甚至没意思的话，他还是会笑着宠你。如果一个男生这样对你，那就没必要怀疑了，这就是爱~!When a boy is liking you, no matter what you do, no matter what you say, he will think "you are cute!" So even if you do something that's not funny, or say something that's not funny or even funny, he'll still smile and spoil you. If a boy does this to you, then there is no need to doubt, this is love ~!
异性之间，如果出现哪些肢体动作，暗示TA喜欢你?Between the opposite sex, if there are any body movements, suggest that TA likes you?
1.刮对方鼻部1. Shave each other's noses
异性中间无论是在平时打闹还是玩游戏，全是不容易接触到了面部的部位，由于面部都是比较亲密部位。不论是脸蛋儿或是耳朵里面，都是会自然而然的绕开，除非是说两个人是那种很亲密的关系，但这种亲密无间里边包括了喜爱或者单恋。亦或是两人处在暧昧的情况，好像轻轻地刮对方鼻部，刮鼻子的动作也包括了溺宠的情感色彩在，好像恋人之间互动交流，或者暗恋者间的身体暗示。In the middle of the opposite sex, whether it is playing or playing games at ordinary times, it is not easy to touch the parts of the face, because the face is a relatively intimate part. Whether it's in the face or in the ear, it will naturally bypass, unless it's a very close relationship between two people, but this intimacy includes love or unrequited love. Or the two are in an ambiguous situation, as if gently scraping each other's nose, the action of scraping the nose also includes the emotional color of drowning, as if the interaction between lovers, or the physical hint between secret admirers.
2.乖摸摸头2. Be a good girl. Touch your head.
异性中间在相处时，很少会有接触到了头部动作在，头顶部都是比较容易受伤都是特别敏感位置。打闹的过程当中，假如是碰到十分搞笑的事，都会对望随后哈哈大笑，从你闹得很欢愉的情况下，要不是因为喜爱，不会有捂头的情况。这类故意为之的动作便是在暗示另一方对你有意思，想进一步发展。如果你们并没有避开得话，还是很享有的情况下，那就说明，你们就是互相有好感的，能够相处啦!When the opposite sex is getting along, there is very little contact with the head movements. The top of the head is relatively easy to be injured. It is a particularly sensitive position. In the process of fighting, if it is very funny, they will look at each other and then laugh, from the situation where you are very happy, if not because of love, there will be no cover head situation. This intentional gesture is an indication that the other party is interested in you and wants to further develop it. If you don't avoid it, or enjoy it very much, it means that you are fond of each other and can get along!
3.宣示的揽腰3. Declarative embrace
异性中间在行走或者过马路的情况是，如果遇见对面有人向你走来要遇到时，是一般朋友的话会提醒一下或者拉你衣摆。这是一种本能的生理需要，假如说在过马路碰到车子情况下，另一方揽腰闪躲往来车子得话，你说这个特性就不一样了。这属于一种极为暧昧的动作，当她作出这一动作时，就是在暗示他喜欢你。在和你告白，另一方能够通过你的反映，来魂穿你的心里。假如你身旁出现这样的情况，无论你对另一半有没有觉得，都需要第一时间跟对方讲清楚。因为他们即勇于承担责任都是对别人负责，最终的最终，祝天下千里姻缘一线牵!The opposite sex in the middle of walking or crossing the road situation is, if you meet someone coming to you to meet, is the general friend will remind you or pull your clothes. This is an instinctive physiological need, if you say that when crossing the road and encountering a car, the other party has to dodge the passing car, you say this characteristic is different. This is a very ambiguous action, when she makes this action, it is suggesting that he likes you. In confessing with you, the other party can penetrate your heart through your reflection. If you have such a situation around you, whether you have feelings for the other half or not, you need to explain it to the other party first. Because they are brave enough to take responsibility for others, the ultimate ultimate, I wish the world thousands of miles of marriage line lead!
一个男生喜欢你的肢体动作。男人发自内心地爱你，他的身体是会不受控制的。那些能很理智地控制自己情绪的男人，归根结底，是不够爱。男人爱你入骨了，才会有很多不经大脑、情不自禁的行为。以下是一个男生喜欢你的肢体动作。A boy likes your body movements. A man loves you from the bottom of his heart, and his body is out of control. Those who can control their emotions rationally, in the final analysis, are not enough love. Men love you to the bone, there will be a lot of brain, can not help behavior. Here's what a guy likes about your body movements.
人多的时候，紧握你的手Hold your hand tight in crowds
人少的时候，男人可能不会牵你的手，你爱往哪里走就往哪里走。但是，上下电梯、挤公交地铁等等，在这些人多的时候，爱你入骨的男人，会紧紧拉着你的手，深怕把你弄丢了。男人这种潜意识的动作，就说明他爱你入骨了。When there are few people, men may not hold your hand, and you can go wherever you like. However, up and down the elevator, crowded bus subway, etc., in these many people, love you to the bone of the man, will hold your hand tightly, afraid to lose you. This subconscious action of a man means that he loves you deeply.
抱你的时候，喜欢搂你的腰和肩膀When I hug you, I like to hug your waist and shoulders
两个人在一起，男人如果不愿意抱你，那他是不爱你的，如果抱你的时候，总是去摸你的屁股，那他是对你心怀不轨的，而一个男人，如果会抱你抱得很紧，把手放在你的腰上和肩膀上，那这个男人，才是真心爱你入骨了。When two people are together, if a man is unwilling to hug you, then he does not love you. If he always touches your ass when hugging you, then he has evil intentions towards you. If a man will hug you very tightly and put his hands on your waist and shoulders, then this man will truly love you.
情不自禁地会说出你的名字I can't help but say your name.
男人的心里装着你，所以在跟其他人聊天，或者聊其他话题时，总是会情不自禁地联想到你，甚至在很安静的时候，突然就张嘴说出你的名字，那就代表着他想你了。男人如果不是爱你入骨，除非你在他的眼前，否则，他都不会想到你。A man's heart is filled with you, so when chatting with other people or talking about other topics, he can't help but think of you. Even when it's quiet, he suddenly opens his mouth and says your name, which means he misses you. If a man does not love you, he will not think of you unless you are in front of him.
有危险的时候，首先保护你When in danger, protect you first
有的男人，嘴上说着很爱你，可是在有危险的时候，跑得比谁都快。一个男人，如果在有危险的时候，下意识地推开你，挡在你的前面，想尽一切办法不让你受伤，哪怕要自己付出生命的代价，都在所不惜，那他才是真的爱你入骨了。Some men say they love you, but when there is danger, they run faster than anyone else. A man, if in danger, subconsciously push you away, block in front of you, do everything possible to prevent you from getting hurt, even if you have to pay the price of your own life, then he is really in love with you.
看见你和其他男人交往过密，会很委屈It's sad to see you hanging out with other men.
不一定是你和其他男人暧昧，只要是你和其他男人有说有笑的，他会表现得很不舒服，那就意味着他吃醋了。喜欢你的男人，会骂你，爱你入骨的男人，则会表现得很委屈。因为在他的心里，你是她一个人的专属，是不能让其他男人靠近的。Not necessarily you and other men ambiguous, as long as you and other men are talking and laughing, he will behave very uncomfortable, it means that he is jealous. The man who likes you will scold you, and the man who loves you will behave very wronged. Because in his heart, you are her exclusive, is not allowed to let other men close.
总想把你带回家见父母Always trying to bring you home to your parents.
男人只有真的确定你的身份了，才会想把你带回家，让他的父母也认识你、接受你。如果就算你提了，男人也不愿意带你回家，那他很可能并没有那么爱你，所以，才会拒绝。爱你入骨的男人，恨不得你上午见家长，下午就订婚，第二天就结婚，越早定完终生越好。Only when a man is really sure of your identity will he want to take you home and let his parents know you and accept you. If even if you mention it, the man is not willing to take you home, then he probably does not love you so much, so he will refuse. A man who loves you to the bone wants you to meet your parents in the morning, get engaged in the afternoon, and get married the next day. The sooner you settle down for life, the better.
逢人就说你是他的女朋友Tell everyone you're his girlfriend.
男人不够爱你的时候，是会你把藏起来，深怕别人会知道。但是，当他爱你入骨的时候，则会把你视为他的骄傲，会带你去参加他朋友的聚会，会把你公布在朋友圈，逢人就说你是他的女朋友，这样的男人，才一定是爱你入骨的。When men don't love you enough, they hide you, afraid that others will know. However, when he loves you, he will regard you as his pride, will take you to his friend's party, will publish you in the circle of friends, everyone will say that you are his girlfriend, such a man, must love you.
