Trying to love before marriage has long become a trend, more and more couples are joining the ranks, and women are not willing to be bound by those feudal and decadent ideas. An independent person should have absolute control over his body, but until the last step, you will not know his true face.
How to have a relationship with a man to make him love you more
First of all, you can't rely on him too much, and secondly, let him see a better you, and learn to care about his life in the future, and can't be a selfish person. Two people must understand her together, so as to make your relationship more comfortable, your relationship will become better and better, only if you understand him and always think about him, he will slowly see your good, will love you more, and cherish you more. In getting along with different people, you must protect yourself, put yourself first, and remember to love yourself while giving your sincerity. In this way, even if one day he doesn't love you anymore, you will still spare no effort to cultivate the next relationship.
Can't rely on him too much
Since two people already have this kind of relationship, then a woman's dependence on a man should increase exponentially, many women feel that they give themselves to the man in front of them, he will be responsible for himself to the end, and she is also very uneasy, she is afraid that after the man gets what he wants, he will not love her as much as before, so many women like to stick to their man, for fear that he will run away. But have you ever thought that being too clingy to him might cause her disgust, a phone call every five minutes, and sometimes checking his phone, there are always countless why you ask him, if it were you, would you like such a person? Slowly he will become bored with you, which is a sign that you are about to lose him.
Let him see the better you
No one is perfect, but we can work hard to improve ourselves, make ourselves different, when standing in front of the man we like, let him feel a different freshness to you every day, and always look forward to the next meeting with you. You can choose to read a few more books, or learn some basic skills, and keep exercising every day to get in better shape. As long as you are willing to try to enrich yourself, you will definitely get something. You have to learn to change yourself, when your charm value rises, he will see you better, he will never forget you, he will worship you, you have to make him feel that it is his honor to be with you. Take the lead in love and don't let him lead you by the nose.
Learn to care about his life
If you want to care about his life, you first have to learn to understand him, and here I am talking about understanding more than the food he likes to eat, the clothes he likes to wear, and even the friends he likes to play with. To understand his way of thinking, attitude and values, of course, since you have agreed to sleep with him, it means that this person is not bad, and you have full of trust in him before you will give yourself to him. Maybe after he got you, you thought about it all day long, always afraid that he would leave you, but in fact, you thought too much, and if he didn't love you, he wouldn't be with you. Learn to care about his life from the details, and give him some small romantic surprises from time to time in his life will make him love you more.
Men have different needs for women at different stages of love. At the beginning of the pursuit, even if the woman just replied to his message, he could be happy for a long time; After gradually becoming ambiguous, holding hands and hugging is a very exciting thing for men. And after there are men and women, men's needs for women often change.
Many women will repeatedly test men in their relationships until they fully trust them before deciding to be with them. And when a man gets everything you have, it is often the beginning of true love. At this time, it is necessary for women to be able to perceive the real needs of men in order to truly win men's hearts. In fact, after "intimacy", as long as a woman pinches the three "seven inches" of a man, the man will "love you like life". Otherwise, the relationship will easily fade, or even make a man change his mind.
Pinch a man's taste buds
People take food as their day, and eating is something that must be done every day. Being together means eating a lot together. If you don't eat well, your feelings will not be much better. When you're in love, it's probably basically a man accommodating you. For example, he doesn't eat spicy food, but he will accompany you to eat Sichuan food, or he will always accompany you to eat seafood even though he likes meat. At this time, men only try to meet your needs because they want you to be happier.
After making out, the man has got all of you, and when there is no conflict, he will still be nice to you and keen to take you to eat good food. But once there is a conflict, it is easy for men to ask themselves "why". Therefore, women must learn to pinch the seven inches of men's taste buds, whether it is cooking by themselves or buying food for you, as long as you pinch a man's stomach, it is equivalent to pinching his heart. Let the man eat well and beautiful every day under your care, and the man will naturally love you as his life.
Pinching the limits of freedom
Before you get together, the man may take the initiative to chase you, so even if you don't have to say anything, the man will run around you every day. Men during a relationship are like this, and their purpose will be very strong. When he falls in love with you, all he thinks about is you. However, when he has already got your heart and your person, he will naturally no longer have so much curiosity and longing for you, but will treat you as his person.
After intimacy, men's curiosity about women is generally reduced, and women are easily insecure. This is a normal manifestation of feelings at different stages. Stupid women will ask men for security without restraint, which will only make men feel depressed and want to run away more. A smart woman can pinch the limit of freedom, which is seven inches, not only to prevent the man from being restricted, but also to let him move within the scope of his "line of sight", so that the man will feel very comfortable with you and make the man love you even more.
Pinch the money in your pocket
Money is a man's greatest confidence. During the ambiguous period and the love period, women may feel that they don't want to owe a man, so they like the AA system and feel that this is the modern concept of marriage and love. In fact, when a man is with you, he naturally has an obligation to pay for you. Moreover, this cannot be called an obligation, people who truly love you will naturally pay for you willingly. And this kind of obligation is actually more like a unique right of his, which others do not have, so he has the right.
After intimacy, women must pinch the money in the man's pocket, and let the man develop the consciousness of spending money for you and making money for you. Also control the balance in his pocket and limit the possibility of him making more mistakes. When a man's financial plan or money-making plan accounts for a large part of your needs, it means that the man has identified you. Once you get into the habit, it's the same as a man who loves you like his life.
Whether the relationship between a man and a woman has crossed the line or not is two different things. When you don't cross the line of friends, no matter how you get along, whether you are ambiguous, or you are ordinary friends, or even become strangers, it is a normal thing. And once you cross the line of friends, it's a different matter.
Many women feel that if they let a man have himself, he must be at a loss. Actually, it depends on how you define the relationship between two people. If you like him yourself, then even if there is a man and a woman, it is not a big deal, after all, if you are together one day, why don't you share the same bed? It's just a matter of bringing the time forward.
Life is full of choices, and different choices represent different endings. In fact, after having a relationship, the woman does it, and the man will like it.
Speak boldly about the love in your heart, even if you don't end up together
Women also have to dare to speak out, if they obviously have a good impression in their hearts, but they choose to hide it in their hearts, and let men guess without knowing the edges, it is actually a very stupid thing. A woman's heart, a needle under the sea, how can a man understand it so easily? If you say that the distance between two people is still in the clouds, there will naturally be enough time for you to be ambiguous. But now that the relationship has happened, then put away the shyness and go straight to the topic is the right choice. At this time, you should be bold to say the love in your heart, even if he doesn't love you, or you don't end up together, it doesn't matter. At least, you've fought for it, and the rest is left to fate. At least for a man, the reason why you give him everything you have is not because of casualness, but because of love.
Don't always feel that you are being taken advantage of by men, this is a consensual thing in itself
Some women will feel that once two people have a relationship, it must be a woman who suffers. In fact, it was originally a consensual thing, where did it come from? If you really feel that you are at a loss, you should not have let him succeed in the first place. Men have physical needs, and women are no exception. In this matter, everyone's giving and getting are actually the same. What a man hates the most is that he obviously didn't force you, but after the incident, all the responsibility for repeating everything is his. Moreover, it is not that he actively wants to take it, but that you passively give it, and the man will not do what you want. Between men and women, when the relationship reaches a certain stage, it is normal for some things to happen, women don't feel that they are taken advantage of, but also take their own responsibilities accordingly, and men will look up to you and take their due responsibilities.
If you don't love, you don't love, don't rely on your own efforts, and treat men as spare tires
It is naturally a very happy thing for two people to be happy, but not all the feelings in the world are happy. Ambiguity and having a good impression are two different things from being together. Some people, when separated by a certain distance, feel that they are the most suitable person for themselves. And after a certain intimacy, there may be a different feeling. In fact, it is a very normal thing for fate to gather and disperse. If you like it, say it, and don't cover it if you don't like it. After having a relationship, if a woman can clearly say what she feels in her heart, and if she doesn't rely on the fact that the man has got herself, or even likes herself, she will treat the man as a spare tire, take it and use it when she thinks about it, and throw it aside when she doesn't want it, and in the long run, the man will give you color sooner or later. On the contrary, if the relationship is made clear, it will be easier for a man to accept, even if he still loves you.
