The longer the Cold War lasts, the more men will experience a series of changes. From confusion and uneasiness to reflection and reflection to exhaustion and disappointment, the process can have a profound impact on a man's emotions and life. Therefore, during the Cold War, both sides should try to communicate effectively, understand each other's thoughts and feelings, and work to solve problems to avoid the Cold War causing more damage to feelings.
The mentality of men during the long Cold War was to make both sides think, reflect, what did I do wrong, can avoid quarrels, and resist with this, and my heart is not yet angry, and my heart is tired.
1. Let both sides think and reflect
Most of the time, men will also appear more rational than women when they quarrel, knowing that continuing to communicate like this will only not be able to spit out good words and make the conflict more and more intense, so a short cold war is the best way to solve it, which is to give both sides time to think and reflect. But women often don't think so, thinking that this is a man's narrow-mindedness, that is, avoidance, and making negativity more and more high.
2. What exactly did I do wrong?
Normally, men are relatively slow in thinking, so sometimes his girlfriend is angry and he doesn't know it, until he scolds him or ignores him completely, and the man may realize that he has done something wrong. Although he realized that he was in trouble, he didn't know what he had done wrong, so he had to apologize to his girlfriend one after another. It can be said that this is the most common psychology of couples in the early days of the Cold War.
3. Be able to avoid quarrels
When a husband and wife quarrel, women are always used to use chatter against men, knowing that doing so will only make the quarrel worse. Rational men tend to respond with silence in order to avoid quarrels, because they know in their hearts that this is the only way to resolve arguments in the face of irrational you.
Fourth, resist with this, and the anger in my heart has not disappeared
Of course, if your quarrel is too intense, or it is clear that you have made a mistake that is unreasonable, then the man will also be angry, and the cold war is also a way for men to be coquettish and depressed, so that the other party realizes their importance, but most of the results end with men taking the initiative to make peace.
Fifth, my heart is tired
If a man's apology is not forgiven by his girlfriend, then he will start to get annoyed. Because in the early days of the Cold War, men apologized to their girlfriends and consumed a lot of patience, but they did not get their girlfriends' forgiveness, and even their sincere apologies were ignored, so men began to become annoyed. Especially if he doesn't know what he's doing wrong, and you don't say it, he'll get tired.
What is the mentality of men during the long cold war, many couples will enter a period of cold war after a quarrel, but there are many women who want to know what the mentality of men is like during the long cold war?
1. Habitual silence
This kind of boy is because he doesn't want to turn his face with you, and chooses cold violence, it is very likely that you are stronger, so he would rather choose to compromise, this kind of boy, women can do more communication and communication, and basically be able to ease the relationship between two people.
2. In fact, he was also very angry
Naturally, if everyone's dispute is too violent, or if you make a mistake to be unreasonable, then the boy will also get angry, cold violence is a way for men to be coquettish and bored, so that the other party understands their own necessity, but most of the results end with boys actively seeking peace.
3. I don't love you anymore, I'm too lazy to waste my tongue
If he doesn't love you very much, he will feel uncomfortable inside, but because of the kind of anger, and will never contact you unless you bow your head. Don't get used to that kind of object, otherwise in the end he will become more and more fierce and less cherished.
Remember, if you are a girl and the quarrel with your boyfriend is not due to your own fault, don't take the initiative to find the other person, you have to wait for the other party to take the initiative to come to you, and if someone asks you out, you have to give someone a step down, this is a good way to get along harmoniously for a long time.
4. Because of the problem of face, I don't want to disturb my relatives and neighbors
Boys are generally more face-saving, and the sound of quarrels disturbs the next-door neighbor, which will make him feel that the ugliness of the family has been exposed. Alarming children and family members will be afraid or endanger the emotions of family members, so according to the method of escape, to calm you down.
5. He wants to give you space for self-reflection
When you are in love, you may have such a little experience: as long as you don't go to trouble, everyone will be polite. Generally speaking, the girl herself has a sense of belonging, and if she does not deliberately go to the inconvenience of the boy, it is not easy for the two to break out into disputes.
If you don't clear it, there is such a situation, that is, the boy has been saying that you are not, and naturally the boy must not really like you.
6. Admit mistakes
She still doesn't admit her mistakes, it's been so long, let's take the initiative to admit her mistakes. Whose fault is it, am I not wrong? Forget it, let's admit my mistakes, after all, she is a woman, or her own daughter-in-law, I have to admit my mistakes, count me unlucky, and I will never make this kind of mistake next time. Daughter-in-law, I was wrong, I'm scared from now on, please forgive me, daughter-in-law, I was wrong.
7. Love too deeply and hurt too deeply
The so-called deeper the love, the deeper the wound. The deeper the injury, the more powerless I feel about the relationship, I don't want to entangle, I don't want to quarrel, I just want to empty myself for a short time, so that everyone can calm each other.
