There are six manifestations of girls' serious lack of love in their hearts: they are eager to get the attention of the opposite sex; Treat life more casually; Like to watch youth idol drama; Moody; She is not happy at all; The status will change directly.
First, eager to get the attention of the opposite sex.
In front of the opposite sex, they will deliberately reflect their sense of existence, indicating that they have a strong desire for love. The reason is simple. The more a person lacks, the more he wants. Becomes anxious about gains and losses, sensitive and suspicious, and has no sense of security. Especially in the face of the sweet talk of the opposite sex, there is no resistance, it is easy to take it seriously.
Second, treat life more casually.
To put it bluntly, I am not particular or refined at all. I have an indifferent attitude towards everything. Anyway, I am alone. This is the most common kind of psychology, which is self defeating, and does not care about other people's evaluations or opinions. Immersed in one's life, it gradually begins to close its own feelings.
Third, I like to watch youth idol dramas.
I can't say all of them. Most women who lack love still like watching such TV dramas. Women have a strong imagination for feelings, and then they will immerse themselves in the heroine in the TV play, unable to extricate themselves, and secretly giggle and like to be in a daze.
Fourth, moody.
Most women who lack love for a long time will have extreme reactions. Most of these women appear to be extreme, moody and unpredictable. They especially resist men's sweet words and do not trust others easily. I can't see others showing their love in front of her, so I feel that others are deliberately stimulating her. It is especially difficult to approach and always keeps people away.
Fifth, she is not happy at all.
No matter what, you can clearly find her lonely and lonely, without that kind of sincere smile from the heart, more like a perfunctory. Especially when I am alone, I sigh and feel depressed, and I look worried. In front of outsiders, they will disguise themselves and protect themselves as invulnerable, but all of them are to cover up their inner vulnerability.
Sixth, the state will change directly.
In her body, there is no sense of vitality and air that this age should have. Become very anxious and irritable. Don't you say the old words? The essence, spirit and spirit are the foundation of a person. As a high-level animal, emotion is a rigid and inevitable need.
Women's long-term lack of love may lead to a series of emotional and behavioral problems. The following are some possible manifestations:
1. Anxiety and uneasiness: lack of love may cause women anxiety and uneasiness. They may feel lonely, ignored or excluded. These emotions may cause them anxiety and fear.
2. Attention to their own body and appearance: Lack of love may cause women to pay excessive attention to their own body and appearance. They may lose weight excessively and pay attention to their clothes to attract men's attention.
3. Change of social behavior: Lack of love may cause women to change their social behavior, and they may become alienated, conservative or overly open to attract men's attention.
4. Requirements for men: Lack of love may lead women to make excessive demands on men. These demands include expression of sex, care and love, which may make men feel that they need more love.
5. Change of attitude and behavior towards sex: Lack of love may cause women to have excessive desire or insecurity for sex, and they may change the way and content of sex to meet the needs of men.
It should be noted that not all women will experience these performances, because everyone is unique, and these performances may also be affected by other factors, such as culture, family background, health status, etc.
The serious lack of love in girls' hearts may lead to emotional instability and a decline in self-worth, so some measures need to be taken to alleviate and improve. Here are some possible suggestions:
1. Establishing good interpersonal relationships: establishing good interpersonal relationships with family, friends, colleagues, etc. can help girls gain more emotional support and recognition, and improve their sense of self-worth and security.
2. Seek professional help: If the emotional problems of girls are serious, it is recommended to seek professional psychological counseling or treatment, so as to better understand their emotional needs and problems and find effective solutions.
3. Cultivate self love and self-confidence: girls can improve their sense of self-worth and security by cultivating self love and self-confidence, such as learning new skills, participating in social activities, exercising, etc.
4. Accept the expression of love: girls need to learn to accept the love and care of others, such as family, friends, partners, etc., and also learn to express their emotional needs and feelings in order to better communicate and exchange.
It should be noted that the lack of love is not a personal problem for girls, but a social and cultural environment problem. Therefore, we also need to pay attention to the improvement of the social and cultural environment and create a more warm, inclusive and equal social atmosphere.
