There is a kind of blacking because of caring. The reason why a boy blacks a girl's WeChat is that he has been hurt and influenced by the girl. Maybe she has done something to hurt her self-esteem. Although he doesn't directly argue with you, sometimes a boy will mind. In fact, he blacks the other's WeChat to show an attitude, in order to recover his self-esteem trampled on by you.
Of course, sometimes if a boy is obsessed by a girl for a long time and doesn't know how to get rid of her, he may choose to blackout her WeChat. For example, you like him, but he doesn't like you, and you want to impress him with your perseverance. Sometimes it's not as easy for a girl to pursue a boy as expected, He will blackout your WeChat when he is bored.
There may be several reasons why women would rather pull black than delete:
1. Privacy protection: Women want their personal information and chat records to be protected. Deleting them will make them disappear completely. Blacking can protect their privacy and avoid harassment and infringement.
2. Leave room: If a woman chooses to delete it, she will completely end all contact with the other party, and blacking can leave some room for a woman to contact the other party if necessary, but she can blackout when she does not want to hear from the other party.
3. Face problem: In some cases, women may be reluctant to delete some people for the sake of face problem, but choose to pull black, because the behavior of pulling black is relatively more hidden, and will not let themselves appear in the other party's vision.
It should be noted that a woman's black pulling behavior does not mean that she must want to cut off the relationship or keep a distance with the other party, perhaps just to better protect her personal information and privacy, or just temporarily need some space and time to deal with her emotions and problems.
It is possible that the girl can't put it down if she doesn't delete it.
For some girls, she really can't delete the person she likes or cannot forget. Many girls regret that they deleted the other person in a moment. But there are also such rational girls who may know that they will regret deleting it, so they dare not make a decision easily. They should be cautious when their feelings have not been completely withdrawn.
The reason why a girl doesn't delete a black person may be that she wants the other person to see that she is living well now or in the future. In fact, to put it bluntly, this situation is often very unwilling for girls. Maybe there was some obsession in her heart. She felt that she was not bad, but the boy left her.
Leave a way for yourself
People's hearts are always full of desires. Who doesn't want more and better. Even though she knows how important the specificity of feelings is, she still wants to have more beauty. She hopes she is lucky to have more love and care at the same time. Or leave a trace of the possibility that, at a time when you are not so happy, you can also turn around and find a waiting hand.
Not deleting is to leave some possibility. She doesn't know what the way ahead is. She wants to explore, but she is afraid of the pain of thorns. She hopes to return to the warmth of the past at that time. Beautiful love is always full of hope. She enjoys the happiness she once had and hopes to meet higher level happiness in the future. So she chose to put you down temporarily to look for the more desirable future.
