How to ask girls out for dinner? Many Laotie didn't know that it was also skillful to ask a girl out for dinner. Her excellent method of asking a girl out made her unable to refuse. But how can I ask a girl to have dinner so that she can accept it more easily? Here are some tips for old irons.
First of all, we need to know the wrong way of invitation and the premise of invitation. Many old iron men are more straight. When they come up, they ask girls if they have time to have dinner together. Without any foreshadowing, they make a blunt invitation. Even if the other party wants to go to the appointment, the other party will wriggle. It is incorrect to invite directly without any foreshadowing.
In addition, it is not a good way to directly throw the choice to girls. For example, directly asking girls "What do you want to eat? Where do you want to go, Girls especially like to be led by boys to go shopping and eat. So don't appear to be indecisive in front of her, and ask her about everything.
What are the prerequisites for our invitation? The first is a sense of trust, the second is a sense of familiarity, and the third is a sense of mystery. In view of these three points, I will introduce you the correct way of invitation.
First: cold reading plus explicit invitation
We can use cold reading first to let the other party think that you understand her situation and her heart, and then lead to the topic of eating.
Example: It's almost time for dinner
Man: Are you hungry and don't know what to eat?
Woman: Yes, how do you know
Man (joking): Because I heard your tummy purring.
Woman: It's a lie. How did you hear that you were not around me.
Since the other party is willing to flirt with you, it means that she is willing to associate with you, and then you can give her some mystery.
Man: I found a good place, where there is XX that you like to eat. I promise you will like it. Hurry up. I will wait for you downstairs at 12 o'clock.
This kind of invitation does not give the other party a choice, which makes the man very thoughtful, assertive, and even romantic. The more mysterious the girl's appetite, the more you will be hanged away.
The second kind: common interest plus vague invitation
If you usually chat with each other to find out what interests they have, you can also show the same frequency. You can especially talk together and invite according to their common interests in the future. In particular, the other party likes to eat, play and other hobbies, and you also have corresponding hobbies, so you can vaguely invite "Let's meet some other day". For example, if the other party likes playing badminton, you can say to him like this: "I used to be a badminton team in high school, and I played badminton well, but I think it must be very interesting to learn from you, so we can make an appointment some other day." This method is called fuzzy invitation, which is based on common interests. The vague invitation does not have a real invitation. It does not propose an accurate time and place. It is just an invitation of its own. Girls are easy to accept. As long as she agrees to you and you ask her again later, she will be embarrassed to refuse.
The above is the skill of inviting girls out for dinner. Girls are more reserved. It is not recommended to invite girls directly. Mastering the skills is easier for her to accept and make her unable to refuse.
