It is understandable that introverted honest people do not drink. The wine table culture has been an important culture for thousands of years. Toast is a common cultural way for many people. At this time, we should say no change. This is not a particularly difficult thing. We need to change our own way to overcome weaknesses and characteristics. Although honest people toasting should learn to change, learn to change themselves, and change their self-cultivation and way.
Why do some people never propose a toast at the table? This shows that this person may be the highest ranking person on the table, and he does not need a toast. This is a possibility, and another possibility is that this person is too introverted to propose a toast, which is the kind of social phobia. Another is that he disdains to toast others.
1. The King on the Wine Table
This type is often the highest ranking person in their own circle. They never take the initiative to toast when they attend any banquet or dinner party. They are waiting for others to toast them. For example, some big leaders and others are the biggest elder in the family. For example, in our family, Uncle Gong has the highest rank. Every time at a family banquet, he never toasts, and younger generations have to toast him first. This is the rule.
2. Social Terror on the Wine Table
There is a kind of people called social phobia of drinking table, which is that they are especially afraid of occasions like drinking table, and they are especially afraid of being toasted by others, so they are difficult to go out and toast others. This kind of behavior is what they fear. This kind of people never propose a toast at the wine table, not because they don't want to, but because they are too afraid of this kind of behavior in their hearts, which makes them unable to make a toast. In addition, most of these people are introverted, and it is difficult to communicate with others at ordinary times. It is even more difficult for them to toast.
3. Qinggao Bitch on the Wine Table
There is another name for such people: Fenqing. Especially in the liquor bureaus with big leaders, they will give full play to their lofty spirit. I just disdain you people and give a toast to the leaders to flatter them. I will not, I am honest and upright, and I disdain your company. Such people often have to endure the hardships of life before they can change. Otherwise, they will live in their ivory tower all the time and think that they are extremely noble.
Rules of toasting on the table:
First, if you can't drink, don't take the first sip, especially in the north.
Second, if you are sure you want to drink, follow the rules.
Rule 1: Although there is "deep feeling, one mouthful of stuffiness; shallow feeling, one lick" on the table, this sentence should never be mentioned when drinking.
The second rule is to hide your strength and bide your time. You must not be too big when you are served.
Rule 3: Leaders have to drink each other before their turn to respect each other.
Rule 4: Many people can respect one person, but never one person can respect more than one person, unless you are a leader.
Rule 5: Respect others by yourself. If you don't clink your glasses, how much you drink depends on the situation. For example, the other party's drinking capacity and drinking attitude should not be less than the other party's drinking attitude. You should know that you respect others by yourself.
Rule 6: Respect others by yourself. If you clink your glasses, say, "I'll finish it, and you are free to show your generosity.".
Rule 7: Your position is low. Remember to give more wine to the leaders. Don't give the leaders wine. Even if the leaders really want to find someone to replace them, they should also pretend that they drink because they want to drink instead of drinking for the leaders. For example, if leader A is too drunk, you can stop the person who is ready to respect leader A by beating about the bush.
Rule 8: Hold the wine cup (beer cup), hold the cup with your right hand, pad the bottom of the cup with your left hand, and remember that your cup is always lower than others. If you are a leader, be sensible and don't lower yourself, or how can you call the following people?
Rule 9: If there is no special person present, it is better to touch the wine in a clockwise order. Don't favor one over the other.
Rule 10: clink glasses, toast, have words, otherwise, why should I drink your wine?
Rule 11: Don't talk about business on the table. If you drink well, your business will be almost done. Everyone knows it. Otherwise, they won't be open to drinking with you.
Rule 12: Don't pretend to be crooked, say the wrong thing, do the wrong thing, don't argue, and consciously punish alcohol is the absolute principle.
Rule 13: If, pure if, when there is not enough wine, put the bottle on the table
