Many people define high EQ as having a moderate "number of ways". Sometimes, it is not the environment that adapts to people, but people adapt to the environment. Therefore, they all say that changing themselves will lead to more and better results. How many details do you know about women with high EQ who pay most attention to at the banquet?
1、 The woman who can take care of others' feelings at any time is very considerate
At the dinner table, it can be said that it is a social place, and the personality characteristics of each person in the dinner can often be seen.
For a woman, if she will always take care of others' feelings at the dinner table, then she must have a thoughtful and kind personality.
Such women, first of all, will pay attention not to snub anyone at a dinner party. The more reserved and introverted, the less talkative, such women may take the initiative to talk to them more to help each other ease their embarrassment. At the dinner table, she often takes the initiative to pour tea for others, ask for tableware, serve dishes, etc., because these warm behaviors often bring happiness and comfort to the dinner.
Secondly, this kind of women will never talk about sensitive topics with others at the table, nor about things that they would rather not talk about, because she knows how to take care of others' emotions and respect others' feelings.
The reason why such women are excellent is that they are good at observing and will find out the characteristics of each person so that they can treat each person in a different way. Secondly, they are very kind and do not want anyone to feel uncomfortable or constrained.
2、 People who are polite to others are kind-hearted
Nowadays, more and more people are eating out, whether it is colleagues' dinner, friends' parties, family dinners, etc. In all kinds of restaurants, you can always see people gathering table after table.
When you observe the people at dinner, you can always see the different performances of people with different personalities. People with flamboyant personality always drive the atmosphere most in a meal. People with the most words, the loudest voice, and the busiest are the ones who toast, chat, and even fight. However, people with quiet personality often don't talk much at dinner. Most of the time, they eat silently or watch others chat.
For women, if they are always very polite at the dinner table, she must be a kind-hearted woman. Even though there is a lot of noise around and people on the table may drink too much, such women are always gentle and polite, and they are very polite and considerate to everyone.
You will never regret choosing such a woman because she has a gentle heart.
3、 The woman who can make the table not embarrassed has a high EQ
In today's society, besides IQ, EQ can be said to be a very critical factor. In fact, emotional intelligence sometimes plays an important role in whether a person can make continuous progress. Emotional intelligence can also be seen on the table.
Some people with low EQ may often bring up some embarrassing topics and make some embarrassing actions in social places such as the dinner table, which is actually the performance of low EQ. The main problem of low minded businessmen is that they seldom think about other people's feelings, starting from their own will.
On the contrary, women who make everyone feel comfortable and comfortable at the dinner table tend to have high emotional intelligence. She will first observe the details and pay attention to everyone's personality characteristics, so as to avoid some awkward topics or actions. How can such a woman not be admired?
How to judge whether a woman's EQ is high at the dinner table:
1、 The attitude towards the waiters was very polite and respectful.
A woman with high EQ will not be late easily. Not to mention the phrase "customers are God" as a treasure. They know that waiters do not have to obey all the requirements of customers, nor do they have to compromise.. A woman with high EQ never embarrasses others at will. They also act very friendly when facing the waiters. Never forget, say thank you with a smile.
2、 When ordering, they will take into account other people's tastes.
Many women with high emotional intelligence always take care of everyone's taste when ordering, not only thinking about themselves. The idea of inviting guests will also be considered. The most important thing is to have fun together. Eat more food if you like, and less food if you don't like. The most important thing is harmony. This is what a woman with high EQ should think and do.
3、 In the middle of the meal, I will take the opportunity to go to the toilet to pay the bill secretly.
A woman with high EQ does not always want to take advantage of others. Only those uneducated women will eat and drink freely. An uneducated woman is the most active when she eats, and will slip away quietly when she checks out. But women with high EQ are not like this. They always put friendship first and money second, so that each other can feel their importance and make their friendship lasting.
