At ordinary times, people have more things to contact with, and their feelings are better. If some things are discussed at a dinner party, or such gatherings are more, their feelings become more talked about. For the three types of meals, we call them "three no go" meals, and try not to go if you can.
Several meals that cannot be attended:
1. Can't eat "Hongmen Feast"
No matter how good your relationship is, if you don't plan to be with each other, when you know that he has other ideas about you, you should keep a good distance from him, not to eat alone. As the saying goes, if you are asked for help, you should not eat indiscriminately. Otherwise, if things go wrong, your feelings may "turn sour". Therefore, when you find that the other person has an ambiguous relationship with you or wants to use you, you should keep a distance from the other person.
2. Don't eat "soft food"
We often say that "soft food" refers to male compatriots. In fact, women are also the same. Women who often rely on men economically and look at men's faces everywhere are also called "soft food". Gender equality should be maintained. Once one party has a soft meal, that party will have no confidence in the other party. And when you don't pay, sooner or later you will know what is a loss. Therefore, both men and women should learn to be independent and independent in their feelings, and should not rely on each other excessively.
3. Can't eat old lover's food
If you have started a new life, don't eat alone with your predecessor. No matter what reason you broke up at the beginning, you can no longer connect with each other. Let your lover worry, and don't eat the other's food at will because of the other's encouragement. Otherwise, you will not be clear with your old lover. Then, don't go to dinner alone with your old lover behind your back. No matter what purpose you have, you should refuse. If the old love comes back, it will hurt others and hurt yourself.
The really smart people will never be absent from the promotion dinner of leaders, the group building dinner with colleagues and the dinner party where they can make friends with senior leaders, because such dinner is very important for them and they have to grasp it.
First, the promotion banquet for leaders.
When a leader is promoted, he will invite his subordinates or colleagues to have dinner together as his promotion dinner. If you cannot be present at the promotion banquet, it will give the leader a feeling of contempt for the leader, which will greatly affect his impression in the leader's mind. So you must attend the promotion banquet to let the leader see his congratulations. In the process of attending the promotion banquet, you must remember to prepare gifts for the leaders, and do not go empty handed.
Second, the group banquet among colleagues.
Group building activities are often held among colleagues, which is also a bridge to close the relationship between themselves and colleagues. Therefore, a really smart person in the workplace will not be absent from the group building banquet among colleagues. Keep good relations with colleagues, get their support and love, lay the foundation for their future leadership, and also help their future career.
Third, make friends with senior leaders for dinner.
If there are many senior leaders at a dinner party and this dinner party happens to invite you, you must go. Because this is a very good opportunity to make friends with senior leaders. If you can have a good relationship with senior leaders and have some friendship, it will be very helpful for your future career development and help you to be more successful in the process of promotion.
