Everyone is eager to have a happy marriage. How lucky it is to be able to hold hands with the person you love for a lifetime and experience the most mundane happiness in the world. However, many people's marriages are in tatters. If they didn't have children, they would have gone their separate ways. Such a marriage is just a shell. One day, once the last straw appears, it will inevitably fall apart. These characteristics of husband and wife are the precursor of divorce!
one There is no more communication between the two sides
The two sides no longer have too much communication, which is a sign that the couple should divorce. Many couples do not admit it, and they do not realize that the emotional breakdown and divorce began when communication decreased. They always think that they can go on with their loved ones and see hope with them. Even if there is little communication between two people and there is no interaction between them, they can still be happy, but in fact, this is absolutely impossible. When you do not communicate, you can no longer enter the hearts of your loved ones. It is difficult to think of divorce.
two No one will talk about how wonderful it was when we were together
No one will talk about how beautiful they were when they were together again. It is a sign of those couples who are going to divorce. It seems that some friends in our lives are destined to stop contacting because of changes in life circle and different values. Both sides will no longer send messages to each other, and will no longer have any communication with each other. The meeting will not be as warm as before, and the couple will also be like this, So the two people kept silent about the past, just to reduce the pain of parting.
three The husband and wife will begin to "know each other's shortcomings"
The husband and wife will begin to "know each other's shortcomings" and accuse each other, which is an obvious sign that two people are going to divorce. You will no longer accommodate each other, so you will "show your true colors".
four Couples will start to stop making any efforts and struggles to maintain each other's image
The husband and wife will stop making any effort and struggle to maintain the image of each other, and will be silent when others scold each other, which means that you have acquiesced to these accusations. Once these four signs appear between husband and wife, it means that they are on the verge of divorce.
When the husband and wife can't get along with each other and have these six behaviors, they should resolutely divorce, and there is no need to continue.
First, it has been out of the track twice or more.
The first time you cheated, it may be because of novelty, it may be because of impulse, it may be because you upset him and pushed him away. However, the second derailment is that the nature is hard to change. When a person makes a mistake and is forgiven, your magnanimity and patience will not move the other person to repent, but will only let the other person continue to hurt you even more. People should pay for their mistakes and pay for their mistakes. To easily forgive a person who hurts you is to give the other person a chance to continue hurting you.
Second, I beat you twice.
When quarreling, it is inevitable to get excited and do some extreme behaviors. However, if a man can hit you twice, there is no reason and need to forgive him. He is hurting you. He knows that he will hurt you if he starts to hit you, but he still does not control himself and still hurts you. He will apologize to you later. Domestic violence is addictive. Once, there will be a second, a third, and more.
Third, do not respect your parents.
Parents are our closest people in the world and our weak points. Although love is only a matter of two people, marriage is a matter of two families. The other side doesn't respect your parents, and can only say that he doesn't pay attention to you, he doesn't love you enough. Between husband and wife, only by respecting can we go a long way, have harmonious feelings and talk about him. If even the most basic respect can not be achieved, then there is no need to continue.
Fourth, make a quarrel when you meet.
It is not the responsibility of either person to move from a close lover relationship to an enemy relationship. Both parties have reasons. If there is a problem in marriage, we should find a way to solve it. If we can't solve it, we can get together. In addition to torturing each other and families, they will also bring great pain and harm to children. If you can't survive, let go and let each other find a better life and a better person. If you go the wrong way, turn back and start again.
Fifth, there is no emotional indifference.
There is no feeling between husband and wife, so there is no need to be together. It is because of feelings that two people choose to live together. Without emotion, two people play their own roles, but they are not distracted, just like a body without soul. Between two people, even if they can't rely on each other to keep warm, there will be only suffering. Don't force yourself to support a marriage without results and feelings, let alone let children live in a family environment without love.
Sixth, there is no married life and bad habits.
Between husband and wife, husband and wife life is indispensable. When there is no husband and wife to take over from, it will only bring spiritual emptiness and physical torture.
Bad habits, like gambling, will bring great disaster to the family if they persist in teaching. In the end, it not only destroyed the whole family, but also destroyed the fate of two families. It's better to leave early than to struggle.
