As the saying goes, "An iron company is a colleague with flowing water". Once a colleague leaves, it is difficult for him to intersect again. If you are not married, you can only hope that the colleague who sent your invitation can stay in the company for a few more years. When you get married, the matter is over. If you quit halfway, you can't go to HR and cry: I'm not married, he can't go!
The workplace itself is a place of exchange of interests, and some people may want to improve and enhance the relationship between colleagues. However, the reality is that the workplace is the workplace, and no one will take the blame or make profits for you because of your hundreds of yuan. The relationship between colleagues in the workplace is sometimes accompanied by competitive attributes, and the other party's friendly behavior may also be misunderstood.
1. If your colleague invites you and no one goes, you'd better give a gift.
2. If a colleague gets married and doesn't invite you, the relationship is normal, so you can skip the gift money.
3. If a colleague is married and has a good relationship, it is better to give gift money.
When a colleague gets married, whether he goes or not doesn't have to follow his lead.
In addition to the exchange of interests, there is also the exchange of human relations between colleagues. It is because of these daily actions that the relationship can continue and become close.
However, if a colleague with ordinary relationship invites him to attend a wedding, he usually has no contact, and suddenly an electronic invitation is thrown, he cannot easily hand over half a month or one month's salary.
At this time, you can choose not to follow the members.
Methods for rejecting random members:
1. Start first to defeat the enemy.
I don't usually have much contact with colleagues with ordinary relationships. If he suddenly contacts himself, the purpose is to invite himself to his wedding. Tell me some bad symptoms.
For example, I have been working so hard recently that I have to work overtime every day, even without a rest day. The problem is that the company is still in arrears with its salary, and its own savings are gone. Finally, you can make up for the fatal blow and ask the other party to borrow some money.
2. Soldiers come and block.
The second way is to play it by ear. First, see what colleagues with ordinary relationships will say to themselves. Some people may think that if they ask directly whether they can attend the wedding, they will try to refuse. So I will ask if I have time one day of a month.
If he says no, he may say that he dialed the wrong time, which is the next month. Don't panic in such a situation, just continue to find excuses to refuse.
If a colleague with ordinary relations doesn't go, the other party won't blame him. The most important thing is to find a good excuse, make him feel like he really wants to go, and give him face.
3. Late rejection.
Some people are less likely to refuse others, especially in person. Then, we can happily accept invitations sent to us by colleagues with ordinary relationships.
When the wedding date is approaching, find another excuse to refuse online, express your regret, and wish the other party a happy marriage. In this way, we won't suffer losses and offend others.
