There are three major problems in life: borrowing money, paying bills, and following money; It is believed that many people have such troubles. Taking Suizi's money as an example, in the face of more and more red bombs, they really feel distressed with more and less panic. Do colleagues have to be polite when they have something to do at home? Here is a brief introduction.
1、 Do you want to give red envelopes to colleagues who are not familiar with each other when they get married?
In fact, in Xiao Pang's opinion, let alone the relationship is not very familiar, even among colleagues who usually work together more, do not involve money matters. To be honest, whether a colleague gets married or not has nothing to do with you, because you only need to do your own thing well in the workplace, and there is no need to pay money specifically for the so-called marriage.
You may think that this is the performance of low EQ, but it is not. You know, in the so-called workplace, the turnover rate is quite high. Some people may still see it today, but they will leave tomorrow. The so-called feelings between colleagues in the workplace also tend to turn into people's indifference.
When you go deep into the workplace for a long time, you will find that the so-called colleague relationship is just the intersection of work and life. You know, you don't even attend some friends' weddings, let alone the so-called colleagues? Therefore, I think that even if a colleague sends an invitation, he or she can find reasons to tell him or her that he or she can't go. Then he or she can consider that this has never happened. You don't need to send an invitation when you get married. This is a clean workplace relationship.
2、 Is it possible to get married in the workplace without sending invitations?
The so-called wedding invitation is totally unnecessary. Xiao Pang's company is a foreign enterprise, and the company's ethos is quite different from that of many private enterprises before. That is to say, whether colleagues get married or have children, most of them just give some candy or eggs to tell colleagues that they are happy at home, and most of them will send blessings.
In other words, we do not participate in anyone's wedding, let alone involve any red envelope money. This has been agreed in the company. Even among colleagues who have a good personal relationship, most of them just go back to the company to invite several people to have a meal after the wedding, and will not involve any red envelopes.
Many people think that this will make the workplace relationship very cold? In fact, it is not. More accurately, this kind of workplace is the real workplace. Colleagues are colleagues and friends are friends. It is clear that we will not disturb each other in private time, nor will we deliberately find some reasons to make people polite, and the working relationship is very harmonious.
3、 How to choose money and face?
Many people will never get out of the so-called human circle. After all, in their opinion, if colleagues want to have a better relationship, they must integrate themselves into his social circle, or his circle of relatives and friends. In fact, this is a very wrong practice. We must distinguish between colleagues and friends, and never confuse them.
You may feel that if others send you invitations, you will lose face if you don't go. That's just your personal idea. The so-called face is not so valuable. This time you didn't attend the wedding, and next time others won't invite you to attend. In this way, you will save money. Everyone is a migrant worker. Compared with the so-called face, money is more important.
You know, there are so many colleagues in the workplace, even if someone gets married every month, your red envelope will not come with you. But when you reflect, you find that every moonlight is a gift that accounts for about 1000 yuan. At this time, do you think face is important or money is important?
Once, when Xiao Pang was still a general worker in the electronics factory, it happened that a colleague who was not familiar with him got married. The colleague is the foreman of the production line. He invited 2000 people from the whole factory to the wedding. Do you think he is familiar with these 2000 people? No, he did it for the purpose of making money, but he left his job shortly after his marriage. In this case, do you still think it is a happy and dignified thing to attend a colleague's wedding?
Of course, if you feel that you value this kind of colleague relationship in the workplace, it doesn't matter whether you are polite. However, if it is necessary to choose between face and money, I think it is better to choose money. When I work for a long time, I will find that all the relationships with colleagues are really colleagues, not friends. Most of the money you give can't be collected back.
Colleagues should keep these four points in mind when following others, or they will suffer losses and not be flattered:
1. First look at the character of the other party
For colleagues with poor moral character, there is no need to make deep acquaintance, let alone pay members. First, people with poor character will not say hello behind their backs.
More people will say you show off your wealth, less people will say you are stingy, there is always reason to gossip behind your back. People who don't need deep friendship, no matter whether you are good or bad to them, there is no need to get along symbolically.
Secondly, if a person's personality is not good, there must be a group of people who are not happy with him. If you are too enthusiastic and familiar with him, it will be even worse for your work communication.
2. Intimacy between two people
The most important principle is to follow the etiquette of distant and close relatives regardless of whether or not there are colleagues. For those colleagues or seniors who have helped you a lot in your work, you should be polite and not be stingy during this time.
There are not many people who sincerely help others in their work. If a colleague once sincerely helped you or cultivated you, we should learn to be grateful,
From another perspective, if you are an invitation sending colleague, you have been very serious about you, but you won't even go to an event with him, which gives a bad impression. Such a stingy little fortune seems to have taken advantage, but in the future
