What are the ways to improve your social skills? People need to communicate every day to survive in the society. It is important to have strong social skills. Here are some ways to quickly improve your social skills, so as to help you become a little social expert and be able to handle everything with ease.
1. If you want to chase a boy/girl and create opportunities to ask him/her for help, people are more impressed with helping others than being helped, which is called the Franklin effect in psychology.
2. People who are entangled in minor matters, such as ordering milk tea, can be entangled for a long time. Generally, they are also entangled in major matters, and the entanglement will lead to internal friction, and the whole person will look lost.
3. If a friend who usually has an ordinary relationship borrows money from you, don't borrow it. It means that he has borrowed all the money he has good relations with.
4. In the cold, the first person to break the silence is either high status or assertive.
5. When communicating with the other party, look into the other party's eyes instead of looking down. This will make people think that you are not confident and ignore you.
6. Be polite to people, but don't be too polite. Many people put their noses on their faces.
7. If you know that many people will oppose your opinion, learn to paraphrase or quote others' words, which will help you spread the fire against you.
8. Don't go after girls who play well with boys. These girls are not really good. Those who can play well with girls are better. Moreover, these girls often don't know the boundaries. Even if you get them, they will be enough for you to drink in the future.
9. Don't try to persuade others to be good without suffering others.
10. When meeting for the first time, smile and try to distinguish the color of the other person's eyes, which will impress you deeply.
11. In the workplace, when someone is angry with you, the best counterattack is to keep calm and look into the other person's eyes, which will make the other person more angry, and when the other person is angry, he will feel ashamed.
12. Speak out your needs boldly. When the work intensity exceeds your capacity, you are too busy, and the tasks assigned by the leader are not understood, speak out boldly and timely. Don't hesitate until things can't be saved. The leader will think you are extremely unreliable.
13. New workers, no matter how introverted they are, should be more extroverted. Otherwise, people will not think you are cold, but they will think you are not sociable. When your wings are hard, your introverted people will think you are calm, cold and energetic.
14. You can see whether this person has the habit of reading by looking at the conversation. The person who reads books has clear logic and ideas. If you become a friend with such a person, you must have my teacher, but only if they are willing to be friends with you.
15. If you are in charge of something, such as a dinner party for colleagues, don't give others a choice. Tell them when, where and where to go. If you give everyone a choice, you can only meet some people's requirements, and some people's needs can not be met, which is good to form a gap, and finally fall behind complaining.
16. Contrary to the previous article, if you ask someone to do something, he may refuse if you ask him directly, but if you give him two choices, he will generally choose one. For example, if you want to open a window in the house, but no one else wants to, you should say, "I want to breathe. Let's open a window or knock down the ceiling.". At this time, people will generally agree to open a window (Mr. Lu Xun's example).
17. When shaking hands with someone, if your hand is hot, the other person will have a good opinion of you. So if you are so nervous that your hands are cold and sweaty, wipe your hands dry and warm before shaking hands.
18. In a multi person situation, if you mention someone, don't use pronouns such as you, him or them, but directly say the name, which will make the other person feel respected.
19. When you talk to the other person, the other person stops talking in the middle of the conversation, and you want him to finish speaking, you should keep silent, smile and nod to encourage him, as long as you don't break the silence, he will finish speaking.
20. If the other person wants to get angry with you and sits closer to him, you will find it difficult for people to shout at people who are close to you. Similarly, if you expect your opinion to be refuted, sitting closer to the person can reduce the sense of hostility.
21. Sending blessing messages on New Year's Day can be short, but don't send them in groups. It would be insincere. You'd better add the name of the other party and finally send a random red envelope. Generally, you won't suffer, because the other party will give you a bigger red envelope because of human kindness.
22. The average price of gifts should exceed the average price of such items. For example, if your budget is 1000 yuan, you should not give mobile phones. A 1000 yuan mobile phone is stingy, and you can give perfume. A 1000 yuan perfume is more generous.
23. If you have something to do with the other party, and the other party always excuses that you are busy recently, it only means that you are not important enough.
24. Those who often flaunt themselves to be frank and outspoken with you are usually just outspoken to you. Is he so outspoken to his leadership? Cherish life and stay away from such people.
25. Apart from your family, no one will pay so much attention to you, so don't worry too much about your ugliness and keep your image in public, because no one will remember to be confident and bold.
26. Don't be too frank in the world of adults. When you just come to a new environment, don't tell the truth without reservation. In this way, people will lose their freshness towards you. If you come from an ordinary family background, you are also vulnerable to bullying.
27. The person who helped you is likely to help you next time, but the person you helped is not necessarily. One reason is that the person who helped you should maintain the consistency of people's design, while the person who helped you felt that it was easy to owe you debt, but difficult to repay it. So learn to refuse others, because even if you help him, he may not help you next time.
