If you are not usually a very eloquent person, don't learn too many high EQ chat scripts, especially those humor skills and high EQ chat scripts such as flirting with younger girls, flirting with men, flattering, etc. Because you are not that kind of person, you can't use them rigidly. In fact, what should you really cultivate? It is a pleasant speaking angle. As long as you speak from the right angle, even a dumb mouth can make people happy. Next, I will give you three silent ways to praise people, especially the third point. When you don't know what to say, you have skills in expression and response.
The first angle: good words should be carried on the back, But when you hear someone praise someone behind his back, you'd better pass on the good words to the person concerned. For example, if the leader criticizes you after making a mistake, you should learn more from Lao Zhang. If only you had half of him to be serious and responsible. When you see Lao Zhang, you can tell him: Brother Zhang, do you know? The other day I messed up my work. The leader said that I should be half as responsible as you. He told me that I must learn more from you. I didn't praise Lao Zhang directly, but passed on the praise from a third party, which seemed very natural and didn't mean it at all. And Lao Zhang must have a special liking for me, because no one doesn't like magpies who deliver good news.
The second angle: Praise people do not want to promote first, but to learn two-way affirmation. Some people boast that people are really annoying. For example, among the boys who are not tall, you are very handsome. You can see that there are others who owe you a lot. Today's dress is really beautiful and not fat at all. Can you enjoy hearing these words? You praise people when you praise them. Why should you suggest that others are short and fat? You are so annoying. However, those who can really speak will be affirmed in both directions. For example, I thought you had a high face before, but I didn't expect you to sing so well, and I didn't expect you to be so young and experienced, and I don't think anyone would be confused by such praise.
Third angle: from the perspective of response, don't ask for words without words, So everyone is embarrassed. There is really nothing to answer. Let's respond with a real car expression, just like a cross talk show. It doesn't need you to talk much, just a surprised expression after the other party makes a wonderful action: OK. Great. Hey, OK, you are beautiful, brother, you are finished. Another example is that if the other party gives you some guidance, you can respond like an animal: Oh, I didn't think so. The power of expression is infinite. Many times you can't say ten words as well as a pair of surprised eyes.
