When communicating, do you hate a person? What kind of people do you hate most? Remember, we usually talk about people who like to say no, that is, they are wrong when you say anything, which is why they are very clever? In fact, you hate the gang spirit most. You can't talk with him, can you? When I say something wrong, I will tell you what I do and what I do.
Remember one thing, so you don't want to be a master. When you say you hate people saying no, please don't say no. This is the first point. The first powerful and effective way to communicate is to say yes first. This is only the first half, especially when you fight with experts, or the people you respect, or your superiors, or your parents, or your children, or all the people, you should remember that the first half of the sentence must be yes, but in the second half you should use a subtle way to give your heart to others, so that others know that you are rejected.
OK. Here is an example. I am a male leader and you are a belle subordinate. At this time, the leader said that we would go out to drink together in the evening. Wow, it's great. Go to drink. But I may call my husband, or I may call my boyfriend. In fact, no one is stupid in this way, and your boss is not stupid. You have told her that you have a husband and a boyfriend. What can she do to you? After having a meal and drinking a little, I will leave. It's just that you need to go in this way. It's not that I can't give you a drink.
If you can do this, your family life must be happy and you must be popular in the company. Have you ever thought about the children around you? Your parents, have you ever agreed with your parents first, and then politely refused? Do you refuse your parents hard every time, so the relationship between you and your parents is always tense, ok? Is your child the same? Does your child mean that every time you say no, you say no, and the relationship is getting more and more tense, you first agree to him, first make friends with him, and then you gently put forward your opinions. If you really do it right, you will not have so much trouble.
There is another thing about communication skills. Don't talk too much at the dinner table, especially if you want to attract others. When you attract others, don't talk too much in your own field
