What is the reason for unhappy marriage? If you think your marriage is not so happy, you might as well take a look at these three truths, because it is highly likely to change the status quo.
1. There is no perfect marriage.
When both the upper and lower teeth fight, let alone two independent thinkers. Other people have a good life, because you only see the external light. You envy other people's good economy, but you don't know that they often quarrel; You envy others for their good feelings, but you don't know that their relatives are in a mess. Don't always think you are upset. Others have loneliness that you can't see. Solve problems if you have problems, not marriage. Second marriage is no less problematic than first marriage.
2. After marriage, people should stop thinking about pursuing freedom, and those who pursue freedom should not marry.
Which is more difficult, men or women? For men, the career is the work of the unit, the achievements are the leadership, the salary is the wife's, and only the pressure is their own. As for women, their heart belongs to their parents, their time belongs to their children, their body belongs to their husbands, and only their wrinkles belong to them. Why do you feel tired? That's because they want to pursue freedom, but they don't know self-discipline is the greatest freedom. How can there be so many true love in the world? Some of them are fresh. It is nature to be fond of the new and dislike the old. It is a fact that marriage is boring. It is impossible to escape the trivia of life for another person.
3. There is no perfect partner in marriage.
Your partner is not specially made for you. Don't think he can meet your needs. If a man is handsome, you don't want to earn much money. If he earns much money, you don't want to care about your family. If you care about your family, you don't want to be promising. If you are promising, you don't want to be romantic. If you are romantic, you don't want to be reliable. If you are reliable, you don't want to be weak. As for women, beautiful people don't like to go to the kitchen, while those who go to the kitchen don't like to be gentle, gentle people don't like being assertive, assertive people don't like being feminine, and feminine people don't like spending money indiscriminately. So how can there be double perfection in the world? There is no perfect lover, only contented tolerance. You should try to accept what kind of life you choose. Less expectation and more care for your partner will bring happiness to your home.
Marriage is like this. It's the same with who you marry, and it's the same with who you live. If you like the person who can accompany you all the time, don't blame others for their lack of dedication to work. If you like a full-time wife, don't blame him for his lack of interest in life. If you like perfect people, first see if you are perfect. If you want to have a good relationship, your attitude is very important.
