There is a saying that "brothers should settle accounts", which is very reasonable. Even brothers should settle accounts after leaving the original family. There is no need to mix money together. If you start a business with relatives and friends, it is definitely a bad thing, because you will find that you can settle accounts with brothers, In the end, this account became more and more confused, and it was not clear at all, so relatives also turned against each other, brothers also broke up, and money was not received, which was equal to two empty.
Mainly in management, everyone wants to play the role of a decision-maker, but this is not realistic. Sometimes it's better to cooperate with friends than with relatives. Because words can be pointed out. But sometimes, because of the good relationship between friends, they are unwilling or ignore the instructions in these words, and when there is a problem, everyone is unwilling to bear it. So it's very troublesome. It's better to clarify some details in black and white. It will be easier to operate in the future. It is not as friendly as everyone.
1. Disagreement with each other
Over a long period of time, both sides have their own ideas, and they will not negotiate with each other like in the early days of entrepreneurship.
Even if we discuss, it is inevitable that there will be disagreements. At this time, the party with more equity will definitely make a unilateral decision, and the other person will be anxious. Even if the husband and wife do business, they will disagree, not to mention two friends and relatives who do business together. The contradictions gradually accumulated, and both parties would feel estranged, so if there was anything to decide in the future, they simply did not discuss it, so the two people drew a distance.
2. Unclear division of work
At the beginning, the two people made clear the division of labor, who is responsible for technology and who is responsible for management. But if the two people become estranged, they will break the original principle of division of labor. As a result, problems continue to arise. If you work less and I work more, you will inevitably feel bad about each other, which deepens the contradiction between each other. The original communication is not enough, coupled with the unclear division of labor, the partner's road will become worse and worse, and the final friendship will disappear.
3. Different entrepreneurial aspirations and values
If the values and ambitions of partners are very different, you will see immediate interests while the other party sees long-term business, which will inevitably lead to disputes or ambiguities between the members of both parties. In this way, on the one hand, it reduces the power of decision planning and implementation, and on the other hand, it is easy to go their separate ways. Therefore, when selecting entrepreneurial partners, it is best to find talents with similar ambitions and values.
4. The distribution of rights, responsibilities and benefits between relatives and friends was not agreed in advance
When relatives and friends started a business together, they did not determine the details of equity, salary, division of responsibilities, dividends and so on in advance at the beginning. The main consideration was that people were too familiar and too explicit would damage the relationship between the two parties, leading to problems that could not be solved in the later stage.
When you start a business with friends and relatives, you think the friendship is great, but in the end, it always turns out to be money.
Relatives and friends are not allowed to do business together, but the principle of partnership must be there. Work is for interests, and relationships are private matters. The principle is not strong, the interests are not clearly divided, and feelings are mixed in. The final result is likely to be a stalemate of relations, no feelings, and zero interests.
