The best way to become a good communicator is to learn to listen attentively first. I have interviewed and trained many entrepreneurs and managers. At first, they thought I was a talkative person, but in fact, I am an introverted person in life. Their intuitive impression of my talkativeness mainly comes from several efficient listening skills I have summarized for a long time.
For example, when communicating with others, you should encourage the other party to talk with a sincere and interested attitude, with attentive and gentle eyes, and give sincere praise when he is speaking. If she is upset and complains, you can listen to her patiently and show her proper sympathy.
In short, if your body, posture, eyes and feedback make the other person feel important, most people are willing to establish a good relationship and communication with you. The worst communicator in the world is the one who cannot extricate himself from being obsessed with himself. He only wants to express himself in conversation. Remember, The first principle of communication is that the person you are talking to is far more interested in himself than in you.
