In husband and wife life, many people will have more conflicts because of the problems and changes between husband and wife. In fact, what kind of woman can prove that she has married the right person in love depends on how her husband treats you in daily life. Ten o'clock proves that you have married the right person. Come and have a look.
1. Actively communicate with you
In life, everyone has different attitudes towards one thing. It may be because of one thing, or because things at work are interesting, they will find time to communicate with you and chat with you. In terms of attitude towards things, he will also analyze the advantages and disadvantages, instead of sticking to his own ideas and focusing on both sides.
2. Your memory is very good
When associating with him, he will remember your life, or a certain anniversary, as well as your physiological cycle very firmly. He will give you surprise and romance from time to time, which may be forgotten by you, but it is very important in his mind.
3. Support you unconditionally
When you feel unhappy or want to make a decision, as long as you are happy and have no problems, he will support you unconditionally. In his heart, you are the most important and won't let you be wronged. As long as you want to do something, he will support you behind. Let you have a sense of dependence and security.
4. Take the initiative to do housework
A home needs two people to operate together, rather than let the other party blindly pay. Many people think that women should do housework at home. But some men will go to work for a day. When they see their wives taking care of children at home and cleaning up the housework, they will take the initiative to extend their hands, so that their wives can have a good rest, which naturally increases the feelings of two people. A small act makes them think that you are also important.
5. Take the initiative to hand in the salary card
When two people get along, he will take the initiative to hand over his income to you for distribution, which shows that he trusts you very much. In his mind, you are his hostess. He will also put down his face and take the initiative to ask for money for you. He always trusts you like that and does not care about the amount of labor.
6. Self motivated
Men are the backbone of a family, and need to take responsibility for the family. Therefore, good men in marriage must have ambition, career, family and self. We must admit that we live in a material world, and even marriage needs a material foundation. An aspiring man will make life better, and he will create a quality life for you, so that women will not get bogged down in life.
Marriage life needs not only the immediate necessities, but also a vision of the future and a desire for the future. If a man does not have ambition, then marriage will be like a wandering boat without direction, and the women on this boat will also be confused, lost, and disappointed in marriage.
7. Know how to compromise when quarreling
Love is like drinking water. Whether a man is sincere to you can be seen from his attitude towards you after a quarrel.
When you say a wrong word or do a small wrong thing, if he often gets angry, haggles over every ounce with you, and fights with you, he will also pour out his resentment at work to you, and even aggravate his anger. In short, whatever you do is wrong, which shows that he does not really love you.
No matter what quarrel happens to a man who really loves you, he will take the initiative to give in for you and "surrender" to you first. Don't try to win or lose with the woman you love.
8. He took the initiative to tease you
When a good man quarrels with his wife, he will not ignore you or hurt you. He will reflect on his mistakes. Although he may not be wrong, he will not blame you. When you are angry, he will take the initiative to tease you when you are young, which is the best way of love.
9. I will always find the steps for you.
Sometimes the quarrel between husband and wife is difficult to really talk about the matter. It may be an explosion of trivial things accumulated for a long time. So it is difficult to really judge the right and wrong of both sides. But if he always finds a way for you to fight, you should know that he doesn't really want to fight with you. He loves you so he cooperates with you in fighting.
10. I won't let you leave after a quarrel
Many women like to run away from home after quarreling. After all, people tend to become irrational when they quarrel. As soon as I find that you have such a movement, I will stop you immediately. Maybe he didn't want to apologize to you at that moment, but he couldn't let you pack your bags and leave anyway. He knew that if you left, he would regret it.
If you have these characteristics in your life, it is likely that you are married to the wrong person.
① He never cares about your affairs and always forgets what he has said. His sense of responsibility for many things is even less. Most of the time, you are you and he is him, but he is never polite when he needs your help. When he says his own people, he can rest assured that you will help him.
② Your face is expressionless. The only way to laugh is to watch short videos or TV dramas. All gentleness and patience are in the presence of outsiders.
③ He always stands on the moral high ground in everything. He would rather trust outsiders than pay attention to your feelings and positions. Under his interpretation, he often says, "Do you help others or not?"“
④ He is bored with everything you say. He is tired when you ask him to accompany you, but no matter who the others shout, they will be in place.
⑤ Your parents have nothing to do with your family, and they are clearly separated from each other.
⑥ No matter at any time or anything, you refuse to communicate. You just need to obey your own arrangement and command. However, if you have different suggestions, you are stupid and stubborn, and will never listen to advice.
⑦ Any problem will only shirk responsibility, rather than choose to change the status quo.
⑧ He is an outsider's master of central air conditioning and chicken ribs, but only a negative energy explosive bag in front of you.
⑨ You are always inferior to others in his mouth, no matter how strong your ability is and how beautiful you are.
⑩ There is no long-term plan for eating, drinking and having fun all day long. Even if you work independently, he said you don't know how to juggle with contentment.
