Why does a man who loves you suddenly become indifferent? Ninety eight percent of women don't understand. Today, I will tell you a very interesting story to tell you why men change their minds.
The lion fell in love with a hedgehog and wooed him. The hedgehog said, "You must allow me to prick you with hard thorns to prove that you really love me.". The lion agreed, put away his claws and teeth, and willingly let the hedgehog stab himself, so he endured for five years, and then he chose to leave. Others asked him, since you have endured for so long, why not continue to endure? The lion said, "I have proved in five years that I love him, and I am willing to let him pierce my heart with a thorn, but he has also proved in five years that he does not love me so much, so he always faces me with a thorn, and is unwilling to give me tenderness and heartache. Although I still love her, I would like to spend the rest of my life defending the dignity of the lion.".
Do you understand? A man who loves you deeply is like a lion who has withdrawn his claws and teeth. He has taken off his armor for you, but you will always face him with thorns. Enjoying his efforts, but unwilling to give the same love. He gradually becomes indifferent, not because he doesn't love you anymore, but because he finds that your heart is not warm. He overestimates his position in your heart, so he doesn't want to continue to be humble, and picks up dignity and broken heart again. You think he has changed. In fact, it's because you haven't changed. You still ignore him and don't care about him as always. Why do you ask him to wait for you in situ?
You want him to treat you like a daughter, but you never think how to treat him well. What you want is not to love each other, but to be loved unilaterally. But men are also tired. They also pay attention to details, just don't make trouble with you, but you think he has no needs. He is hurt, but you are still so proud and self. But you forget that his kindness to you does not mean that you are really good, but that he is willing to treat you well. Don't wait for him to be completely disappointed, before you realize how excessive you are and that your boy needs to be well loved. Feelings are mutual. Both people should learn how to manage feelings.
