It is also necessary to pay attention to occasions. Not all occasions are suitable for approaching. If you approach in inappropriate occasions, others will be disgusted with you, so you should also pay attention to occasions if you want to approach. What occasions are not suitable for rapport? The following three occasions should not be approached.
1. In public, it is not suitable to approach elders or leaders with high positions
In public, a group of people are staring at people of high position. You don't interact with others very much, but always interact with elders or leaders. Especially at dinner, when you toast each other cup by cup, without considering other people's feelings, what will others think of you. I think you are like licking a dog, which greatly reduces my impression of you. At the same time, you have offended a lot of people. You should know that many leaders do not want to talk to others in public. Leaders always maintain their dignity and authority in public. They do not want to talk to you too much.
2. Don't get close to strangers when you meet them for the first time
When meeting strangers for the first time, you should not approach them, especially with the opposite sex. Because you don't know the other person, and if you don't know the other person, you always approach the other person, and the other person will question you, thinking that you have another purpose and have ulterior motives. In addition, the other side doesn't know you well. You ask the other side too many questions. Should the other side say something? Should you listen or not? The other side is not sure about these problems, so the other side is not willing to talk so much with you.
3. You don't know the other person well enough, and the other person will come to you again
If you don't know the other person well enough, don't get too close when the other person comes over to get close to you, because you don't have much contact with the other person, and the contact is relatively shallow, so it's unnecessary to talk deeply about the so-called shallow contact. Even if the other person comes over to get close to you, he may have his own purpose. If you can't get close to the other person, you will have a heated conversation with the other person, All the things that should be talked about have been said. Will they cause a series of troubles in the future? What will happen? When the other person comes to get close to you, does he want to dig some information and know some private information? So some things cannot be said in depth when making shallow acquaintance.
The above are three occasions that are not suitable for rapport. These three occasions are likely to cause you unnecessary trouble. Therefore, if we want to rapport with others, we must be prudent, and rapport can be effective in appropriate occasions.
