Many of our friends have encountered such a situation. They don't know what to say when speaking in public, and some of them regret it after saying it. They feel very silly and naive, and regret that they shouldn't say such words. Then what can we do if we don't know what to say in public? First of all, we need to know the three reasons for this situation and the solutions.
Reason 1: unaccustomed to public places
If you are not used to public occasions, you will be nervous easily. If you are nervous, you don't know what to say. Of course, being unaccustomed to public occasions is also because we do not have a routine in organizing language. If we are invited to speak impromptu, if we do not have an excellent routine of organizing language, we will be embarrassed to speak. We can follow the routine of "telling facts, feelings and ideas" to solve the problem. Of course, if we are not familiar with public occasions, we can also participate in such public occasions more often, and gradually become familiar with such speech routines.
Reason 2: unclear
Many friends don't know what to say when they speak in public, but they can't say clearly what they want to say, and can't express their ideas logically. What should I do in such a situation? In such a situation, we should have a handle when we speak. First, we should catch everyone's attention, then make a general statement, followed by a structural expression of sub arguments, and finally call for action. When expressed in this way, the argument is clear and can be heard clearly by others.
Reason 3: Incomplete speech
It's something we often encounter that we can't say everything. We should have shown the whole picture to everyone, but we always forget one or two things. We should work hard in preparation for the problem that we can't say everything at the end. For example, before the meeting, do enough research and preparation. The better the preparation is, the less likely it is to make mistakes. In addition, make records during the meeting, record the key points that everyone said as well as the key points that he thought of temporarily, and then express them in accordance with these key points, so that he can have a goal.
If you don't know what to say in public, you can use the above suggestions to solve the problem. Mastering the solution is not necessarily good. You can better express your true ideas by participating in more public exercises.
