If you don't want to attend the class reunion, then don't go! Originally, it was very meaningful to get together with old classmates for many years. But now there are some people who are relatively free. If they have nothing to do, they invite their classmates to get together. When they get together, they can chat happily at first. Slowly, some people begin to show off their wealth, and the atmosphere becomes not very good. So if it is a classmate gathering that you really don't want to attend, and there are people you don't want to see, then you don't want to attend. There is no need to feel embarrassed to refuse.
If you can't refuse the invitation completely, first say you want to go, and then ask about the specific time of the party. After confirming the time, you can say that you are going to the relatives' home or somewhere on the day. Anyway, I was busy that day. Although I wanted to go, I really didn't have time. Let them have fun. It can be said that I am out now, and it will be a bit late to attend your party. You can eat or have a party first. Then say again when you think it's almost over, or when you are asked, and then say you don't want to go, which should be OK.
Clever way to refuse when you don't want to go to a classmate party
1. Busy with work
If the other party is far away from home, it is also a way to refuse on the grounds of work. When holding student gatherings on holidays, if there is work on duty on holidays and the deadline is approaching, it will be considered as a matter of no choice and will not be forced to say "must attend". In addition, it is also effective to choose things that cannot change the schedule, such as traveling far away.
2. I have an appointment
There are arrangements and plans in advance for overseas travel, domestic travel, large-scale activities, etc. This can be said to be a smooth way to refuse. When it comes to foreign travel, it is not surprising to coincide with the reunion of classmates. If you make an appointment for a hotel and a plane, you will understand that you cannot cancel it. Student gatherings are usually held on long holidays, weekends and other rest days. If you travel during the long holidays, it will be very smooth.
3. Family affairs
If you are married and have children, you can say that because the school has parent-child activities or take care of your family. If the children's school has activities or children on the rest day, it is easy to be absent. The husband is on business and no one takes care of the children, which can also be said to be a good reason.
Reasons for not attending the reunion
1. Detest trouble
2. It's too far. I'm not happy to go
3. I will meet people I hate
4. Too busy
5. The mood will become bad
6. Don't want to look back
7. Don't want to meet some students
8. I have contact with my friends
9. I can't talk with them
10. Private matters first
