You don't mix well. Sometimes it's not really hard enough, but you don't understand human nature. It's useless to know anyone if you don't do well yourself. To find out why you don't do well, I hope the following suggestions can help you.
1、 You have no value. It's useless to be sociable.
I was educated by my parents when I was young. I had many friends and many paths. So I went to society. I invited everyone to eat and sing. I made many friends and called each other brothers. At that time, I didn't think it was so difficult to get involved in social relations. It was OK to invite more guests to dinner as long as everyone was in good company. Later, I was involved in carrying the blame by the top leaders. I expected my brothers to give me a fair word, but everyone knew the cause and effect of the matter, but no one argued for me. At that moment, I understood what's the use of being sociable? When you stand high enough, any circle is suitable. No matter how many friends you seem to have, if you are not worth enough, everything will go for nothing. Later, I tried my best to make money and no longer valued contacts, but a group of people came to my side.
2、 We should learn to turn our backs.
Since childhood, I have been taught to be kind and courteous to others. Later, I experienced a lot of things, and I found that what is the result of blindly compromise and patience? It is others who constantly sacrifice my interests. Because every time something happens, everyone tells me that you should bear more responsibility. Don't be like him. I will change after seeing it clearly. I either keep a distance from them or turn against them in time. I find it very useful. They know that this is not a troublemaker and can't be trampled on at will. This is human nature. Kindness is a precious quality and can't be given to everyone. If one day I no longer tolerate, it is not that I am not kind, but that some people simply do not deserve.
3、 Don't always disturb others under the banner of being good to others.
Everyone has his own independence, and some things need to be faced by the other party, but many people have a cheap problem and always want to help others. I don't know whether you really want to help each other or satisfy your sense of achievement. If we want to make progress, we must not lag behind in thinking, otherwise we will take many detours if we cannot reach the essence behind things.
