When love has become a habit, it is a kind of pain when it is forced to quit this habit. When I have been used to a person, but have to live to remove this habit, I have experienced the pain, I can't think about it, I can't put it down, I can't forget it. How can I completely forget a person?
1. Let go of past memories
The memories of two people together are very sweet. It is not easy to forget. No matter what the reason for the separation, we should all be relieved. As for the past, memory will fill your brain and make you want to stop and miss it. But you should learn to face your feelings and reality rationally! When you are separated, this memory has no meaning. What you need to do is to learn to let go, which is the greatest accomplishment for yourself.
Only when you let go, will you become yourself again, otherwise you will walk in your own dead end and it is difficult to get out. Give yourself a chance, don't let it affect your life, you are still you, very good you!
2. Don't hear from the other party
Two people are united when they are separated. No matter whether you have no feelings or misunderstandings, do not cling to this unexpected love since you have decided to separate. Although I mercilessly deleted all the contact information of the other party, I still pay attention to his happiness from time to time and mention myself? Doing so will only increase your troubles and make yourself more miserable.
It's meaningless. Your entanglement will only add more troubles to yourself. So, since you are separated, you should be generous. Remember, you are strangers from now on. Even if you come across the opposite side, you will be indifferent! Although it is difficult, this is the only way. If you step on it, you will be yourself.
3. You should tell yourself that you are no longer lovers.
It has broken up, he has gone, you should learn to accept. Don't blame yourself too much. It's easy for two people to make mistakes when they break up. But in my heart, I feel that we blame ourselves, and we always blame ourselves. It's because I didn't do well, I let him down, and I made him too tired, so he chose to leave him. Yes, I made a mistake. At this time, the hint in my heart was that if I had done well in those places, he would not leave me. It was my fault and I was too stupid. Not that we broke up, it means that the two of you did a very bad job, but that you two are not suitable, and your personality is not compatible!
4. Don't be afraid. It takes too long to break up.
A psychologist once said that it takes much less time to get out of a relationship than you think, so you should face the breakup calmly! In fact, you need to know that love is a constant trial and error. If you love the wrong person this time, it doesn't mean that you can't meet a more suitable person next time. If you know what kind of person you like and how to love someone, then breaking up means growth for you. It doesn't mean to lose, just that you will grow up through breaking up.
