In love, women tend to put their attitude very low. This may be because of women's nature. Women will be worried about gains and losses in love and lack enough sense of security. So they will listen to the other half and be careful. But this often speeds up the strangulation of love between two people. What are the good ways to make men afraid of losing you?
1. Spend more time investing in yourself
Women who love deeply have one thing in common. They will always think of the boy and ask him questions. Even if not in front of them, they will think in their hearts. Slowly, their time and energy were spent on the boys, and they had no plan for their own life. They will slowly fail to catch up with the pace of boys and can only follow the men. In fact, in love, the best relationship between the two should be that men are like hunters, women are like prey, men chase behind, and women run ahead. Because only in this relationship, men will not be tired. The "prey" has been running in front of them, while the "hunter" behind them has been unable to catch them. This relationship is full of excitement and novelty, and the "hunter" always has the desire to conquer.
When a woman is in love, don't forget to spend time investing in herself, find something to move herself, and put self-improvement first. Get busy and let men know that you have a lot of things to do, and let men feel anxious about losing you.
2. Use ambiguity to make him feel your heart
Ambiguity has always been the best way to enhance heterosexual feelings, especially for men. Many people often say that men are lower body animals. In fact, many times for men, when they like a person, they often start from ambiguity. Because most of the boys are backward in their feelings, they may not understand the girl's mind because they are playful. So girls at this time should learn to use ambiguity skillfully, so that he can feel your thoughts earlier, which is more conducive to his falling in love with you.
3. Make him jealous
It's not that you want to flirt with other boys in front of him, but let him know that he may lose you at any time. There is a saying on the Internet: If you don't hold your hand firmly, your little darling will run away with others. It is because of this state that boys will cherish you more. What should we do? In the conversation with him, we will always disclose the status of you and the men around you, whether you are friends or colleagues. As long as we talk about it, the men will surely realize that you may lose because of another competitor. In order not to lose you, he will take a good look at you and treat you again.
4. Cool occasionally to let each other have their own space
Love is never a matter for one person. If only one person pays, it cannot be called love, but wishful thinking. Love can really change a person. Good love will make people happier and younger, while bad love will make people "totally different" and even lose their sense.
Therefore, women should remember that if they want to have a lasting relationship, they should not contact too frequently. If you are too frequent, men will feel monitored. With this sense of bondage, they will want to stay away from you. Properly cool him, so that both people have a sense of space, men will understand your intimate, will cherish you more, afraid of losing you.
In three words, let him fear losing you:
The first sentence: If you ignore me, I will not want to disturb you. If you ignore me, I will slowly ignore you.
Second sentence: No matter how deep the feelings are, if they are not maintained, they will fade away sooner or later.
The third sentence: You didn't see my message, but you saw it and didn't want to reply, right
