Many old irons have no methods and skills in chasing girls. They always rely on their own feelings, but they don't know the mistake of falling in love, so they become the spare tire of girls. Here are the methods and skills of chasing girls. Don't fall into these three big mistakes.
Myth 1: As long as I treat her well, she will gradually like me
Some big brothers regard humble flattery as the self-cultivation of warm men. They always think that girls will like themselves if they are nice to girls. When they are stuck, they stubbornly say, "I can wait.". Lizi also knew that an old iron would think: "She just doesn't know me. As long as she finds out my good, she will fall in love with me immediately."
Iron juice, sober and sober, is this kind of persistence moving love? I'm afraid that in the end, I just moved myself!
Myth 2: She is my destiny
Many people believe in fate and that marriage is doomed. Sorry, Yuelao's red line is no longer enough, and Cupid's arrows have been discontinued.
Many people who are full of beautiful expectations for love have been waiting for the "that she" to appear, imagining that two people fall in love at first sight, agree with each other, and live a shameless life from now on. However, the reality is that so many people are destined to be together, and the two people are really in tune, which can only show that the three concepts cultivated by personal education and family environment coincide.
The only thing you can do is to focus on yourself and clarify what is the most important thing for you at this stage, so that you can live better when you haven't met someone who can fully fit in with you.
Exercise ability, improve income level, improve speech and appearance, should be managed as a habit, rather than spend a lot of energy to pursue uncertain things.
Myth 3: Reasoning a girl to make her understand me
Men usually look at things with rational thinking, result oriented, objective as the standard, suitable for solving problems; However, women often look at things with perceptual thinking, live in the present, take themselves as the standard, and are suitable for maintaining relationships. So when you get along with girls, you should be less reasonable, more empathetic, and communicate according to their emotions.
For example, when girls complain about something to you, they don't really want to get the so-called solution, but just want to talk to someone close to them and hope they can be valued.
For example, girls say, "Today I was so upset that the boss threw away a lot of work." Some boys will say, "This is the way of work. I am often assigned to do this and that by my boss."
This is the performance of not paying attention to girls' emotions, and the correct way to open it is when a girl says, "Today I'm so upset, and the boss threw a lot of work away." You reply, "Give me your boss's address, and I'll beat him to death every minute.".
Conclusion:
Emotion is what you love and I want, and we need to pay each other, so don't lower your attitude to chase an impossible person; Emotions also need to be managed carefully, so we should learn how to get along with men and women. Get closer to each other and listen to each other's heart to gain stable happiness.
