How to coax your girlfriend to be angry? What will you do when your girlfriend is angry? The way many people do is that I admit my mistakes first, then say all kinds of beautiful words, and finally hug and hold high. The effect is good, right? But after a long time, you may realize that there is no end to coaxing. Even the harder you coax, the more frequently your girlfriend loses her temper. In the end, it even turns into that she loses her temper in order to coax you, which is very embarrassing. So is there a better way to coax your girlfriend? Of course, today we will talk about the four steps to coax your girlfriend. The first three steps are the foreshadowing, and the last step is the kill.
The first step is to calm down each other, That means you don't want her to get angry every time. Your first reaction is to admit your mistake. If she is in a state of being bored when she sees you, you should never ask for trouble. You should give her some space, and you should do your own business within the range of three or five meters. Never play games or sleep, or the consequences will be unimaginable. You really have nothing to do. You can clean the table and sweep the floor quietly. That's just to show an attitude. Let's calm down first. You can see me at any time. As long as it is not a contradiction of principle, when girls see that you are doing something right, even if they are still angry, they can ease some of it.
The second step is to straighten out your attitude. A lot of people ask if we can still talk about it? What are you doing with that face? As soon as I said this, it was a girl who was going to blow her hair. But don't let me be the first to say that I was wrong. Many times you don't know where you were wrong. It's a bit superfluous to say this, and even think you are a bit perfunctory. Try to test her mood first, and say something nice to praise her.
For example, "My dear, your eye shadow is very good today." The purpose of doing so is to show that I am here to communicate with you, not to fight with you. After you have said all these things, as long as she doesn't say a word to you, or even a word, it is a default that she is willing to listen to you now. At this time, you should objectively tell the story of the event, and do not have too much subjective color of your own.
The third step is to lower your attitude for the time being. For example, you can say to her, "I may have thought about this problem too simply. I just reflected on it, and I really missed your feelings. I'm really wrong." Then you can express your apology and opinion on this matter. At that time, she would not argue with you anymore, and probably would also express her own opinion. At this time, you don't need to do anything. Hold his hands, look at his eyes affectionately and sincerely, and just stare at him to vent your feelings. Then you may find that girls are not unreasonable creatures, and they will also review themselves. After you finish the third step, you have almost coaxed. But if you want to live more peaceful life in the future, you need to use the fourth step.
The fourth step is to raise your attitude to counter attack. To put it in a very subversive way, if you want to reduce the frequency of your girlfriend's quarrel with you, the best way is to seize the opportunity and let her coax you once. If you find one time, it must be her fault, it must be her fault, and the little things that hurt you. Learn to be angry with her once, follow your girlfriend's path, and let her have no way to go. This is a test of acting skills. You want to make him think you are angry, but in fact you just pretend to be angry like he used to be. To be frank, it is how to be cute. A small mouth, a small waist pinching the whole is a replica of your girlfriend. As long as your acting skills are up to standard, your girlfriend is absolutely ignorant now, because she is used to being coaxed by you, and now she doesn't know how to coax you. Calm down first, and then give her a step down. Every time I coax you, can't you come and hug me, kiss me, coax me? Brothers, don't feel ashamed to say such words, and don't feel ashamed to deal with your girlfriend. In her eyes, you may have been a mature and stable man who carried everything on his own, but now you are wronged and let her coax you, which may soften her heart. But after she coaxes you, you can pour some bitter water on him to let her see your difficulty. There will be conflicts in the future. When she wants to be angry again, she will also reflect on herself when she thinks of your grievances today, and will be more willing to communicate with you rather than fight with cold war and power.
To tell the truth, when he learns to coax you, his sense of security will increase, and you will also find that the frequency of quarrels between you is getting lower and lower. If there is a problem, you will communicate and solve it, and if there is no problem, you will not create problems. It is the highest level of coaxing your girlfriend to learn to coax you.
